My husband and I are both pierced.Mine is a small ring with attachments.My husband says it looks beautiful on my shaved pussy.It is very stimulating when not wearing panties.Love to wear it when were out with a sexy dress.It feels great when he is using his tongue flicking it around.He is pierced with a bar-bell through the loose skin under the head.I bought him a ring with a big ball.He says it stimulates his cock when he is naked and walking around.It only gives me a little sensation during sex.I have more fun taking it off before I suck on his cock.Some people always go to the extreme,as in the picture.If he gets pleasure from pain or he likes his Domfem to pull or lead him around,then it's for him.Use common sence and they can be very erotic.