[Help Me]

so i'm curious about trying anal and i want to try it the right way i've had experiences in the past that didn't go very well. but i don't know how to tell my husband that i want to try and i don't know if he'll want to it's kind of a touchy subject because i've always been curious but never would admit it. anyone have any suggestions?

Since your both young he might have never tried it and does not want to be embarrassed.When your good and lubed insert him into your vagina first while sitting on him,put somemore lube on after you withdraw and take charge and insert him into your young bud.When he has caught on get into the doggie and let him take charge.Tighten your pc muscles and take a look at his face.Add some encouragement and let your moans be heard.Oral

[First Time]

At the weekend I had my frist experience of anal sex, and I was surprised. I can't say I loved it, but I definitely didn't hate it and would do it again.

I think in part apprehension was there to begin with and the worry that it was going to hurt at some point. It was a little uncomfortable at first, but I expected that, and my bf was wonderfully slow and steady until I was more comfortable and ready for a bit more pace. He never rushed me (I told him it was my first time with anal) and kept checking that what he was doing was okay, and if I was alright. It was a new experience and wonderfully done, mostly for me because of how my bf was so lovely. It has definitely encouraged me to do it again, and hopefully as time goes on the apprehension will fade away.

I don't think about anal>I just love the way my husband and I start kissing,touching and lots of foreplay,espically oral and inserting a butt plug.After vaginal sex and a couple of good orgasms he cums in my mouth and my anus is welcoming his penis.As he spreads my cheeks with his hands my anus is open enough and he pours some lube in.He can now slowly push his way in to the brim and I sit back on him and can contract my muscles to grip his cock like it was my hand.I can feel the head bulge and his size increase,filling me completely and I ejaculate enough to soak us both.I am so relaxed then the feeling becomes like nothing else.We do keep very lubed as we have continued for an hour with anal sex.I have my best orgasms from anal and have both fallen asleep with him still in me.Afterwards he showers and returns to give me another batch of his yum.If a man loves you and knows how to give you pleasure it can be very rewarding.Enjoy!...Oral

[Could Never Of Imagined]

Our weekend visitors,Beth and Carla[who's a shemale]arrived friday night.After dinner we made some drinks and put on some nice music.Beth wasted no time to strip Carla and fasten a cock strap ,leather wrist restraints,collar and stretch bar to keep her spread eagle.Beth was sucking Carla's cute little hairless penis until it was bulging straight up and then inserted a butt plug.My husband stripped me and Beth handed him some rope.He bound me and they placed me under Carla in a doggie style and bound us together[hard to explain].Beth slid under me and was licking my pussy fiercefully and then my husband went down on Beth's pussy right in front of my face.He would stop and stick his penis in my mouth,then back to beth.Beth screamed and her body was shaking while she was licking my now,wet pussy.Then she inserted a butt plug in me ,slid out and took my husband's penis in her mouth.My husband poisitioned her in fronf of me and entered her.I could see his penis shinning with wetness as he withdrew.He positioned her pussy for me to lick,as i did.She smelled fantastic and tasted like a mint.I was in a bliss and then felt Carla's penis enter me.Beth released her fluids and I licked it up.There was very little taste,but good[this is my first].Carla's penis was just big enough to hit my g-spot and I gushed all over her.Restaints were released Beth entered me with her strapon as my husband's penis went down my throat as Carla sucked my nipples.My butt plug was removed and I think Carla F**ked my ass using a finger condom[new to me],could have been her finger.Then Beth entered my ass with her strapon while Carla fingered my clit.My husband exploded his yum in my mouth.I shook like crazy and kept cumming over and over.He withdrew and Carla put her penis in my mouth.I could even take her little balls in my mouth,then she shot streams of fluid,[very watery],unlike regular cum.It did have a delightful taste and lots of it.We took turns on Carla's ass and sucking her beautiful titties.Then my husband f**ked her as she had asked for a year ago.I don't think she ever had a pounded like that before,nor the size.She had tears in her eyes,yet smiling.To the showers we went where all three of us sucked my husband to erection again.Carla's penis never went soft[amazing].In bed that night I sucked both penises again and swallowed both of their yummy treat.Saturday I used the strapon on Beth and it was her turn for my husband to f**k her ass.We fingered her and played with her clit until she gushed.It was her first time and won't be the last.I never had so o's and drank so much cum [female,male,shemale].T think my husband's poor penis needs a rest.Oral

[Dom Or Sub Which Do You Prefer?]

Well I had to ask this question since we are thinking about getting into the BDSM thing. I tried it once with my husband and it didnt go that great, But me I think I would like to be submissive, to begin with and see how I like it and then maybe turn into the Dom. Please let me know which you like and why. I have read the article by Mikayla on this issue so I have the starting point of it. Just curious as to how many women or men prefer which side and why?

Having to help raise my younger sisters and bothers,and being a professional for twenty years I was always the boss.Since I met my husband and he is a master at giving me total pleasure in all ways.I want to be his little sex sub,but he always just suggests things and I tell him to just say what he wants.He has surprised in the past with some great sexual adventures without me knowing and it was great.I could never be anything but his sub.He is the master of my sexual side.Oral

[Bound And Spanked]

I get little love pats on my ass and I always push my tush out for more but thats usually it.I would love to be submission to him,[sexually].I would enjoy being his sex slave.I have total trust in him that he would never hurt me.I would love to be bound and given a good spanking letting him do what ever he wants.In the past I have sucked others guys.The idea of being bound naked and exposed to others with each one spanking my ass first would be very exciting.Until lately never thought of sex with a woman but it would be great to be bound,spanked and forced to eat her pussy.Then f**k by her while having my husband's cock in my mouth swallowing a massive load of his yum

[Cuming In Fast]

When I met my now husband and that was only 2 years ago he had no problem going on forever. For some reason about a month after we met he cant seem to stop himself from getting off very quickly. Now he has tried to slow down, stop and even get off before we start the dirty deed. Although it works to an extent its not really the same and it either fails within minutes or not at all. We are only in our 20's so I am having a heck of a time understanding whats wrong. Now he has told me it just feels so good lol right!!! We have also tried numerous things like cock rings and so called pills from sex stores etc that dont work at all. I get very frustrated even if I myself try to ride him and it happens cause I dont get the pleasureable experience (You can feel when its not hard)so PLZ help me with any suggestions that we could try to maybe stop this or prevent it further.

The key to control is being relaxed.controlling ejaculations thru pc excersizes always works but takes time[yoga and tantra is great].sometime we like to just take our time to relax,after talking,kissing,etc we roll into the 69 position and massage each other,stroking,licking,sucking,fingering each other's g-spot[his prostate] very slowing.my husband can have orgasms without cumming.if your husband does cum in your mouth continue to keep his penis in your mouth and let him give your orgasm by massaging your g-spot and clit[anus if you like that],have him insert a butt plug,or one on him,that always works on me.i love sucking on a soft penis as some men do and soon it will be at your attention again and go for round two.Relax,have fun and experiment.love always finds a way!Oral

[Should I Ask Him?]

I looking to have a very exciting weekend.Two friends are coming over who we met in Key West a year ago.We have become good friends with some sex involved.One of the ladies is a shemale[i guess you would her/him].You would never know she had a penis.She has a perfect woman's body and face,yet this very boyish penis[very small].The other lady has already expressed about sex with my husband which is ok with me.I would love to see that.But the three of us ladies would like to see him f**k Carla[shemale],as she would.She asked him once to give me that cock and he gave a,What! expression.I thinks he thinks of it as gay sex.Would this be true and should i ask him before they arrive?Of course it would anal,as she has a penis.Also she can wear a g-string and you can't notice anything.She says she tucks it away?ORAL

[So Pleased With Myself]

I have been with my husband for nearly 15 years. I have never sucked him completely off.....until Friday night. We were very in the mood and were giving and receiving oral sex and I just thought sod it and went for it!! I hated the taste but swallowed it all. He is still getting a hard on 2 days later thinking about it, he has always wanted me to do it!

GOOD FOR YOU!!!! I GET MY BEST REWARDS AFTER SWALLOWING.I LOVE THE TASTE OF HIS CUM AND IF I DIDN'T I WOULD STILL SWALLOW ,BECAUSE I KNOW HE LOVES IT.ORAL

[Oral To Anal]

my husband and i are having so much fun reading this post. were both looking for a great story from you

I WAS ON THIS SITE EARLIER WHEN MY HUSBAND CAME DOWN IN HIS ROBE.I COULD HEAR HIM IN THE KITCHEN.HE CAME IN HERE WITH A BOWL,AH CHEEROIS,WHO WOULD KNOW.HE TOLD ME HOLD THE BOWL.HE OPENED HIS ROBE AND EXPOSED HIS SEMI ERECT PENIS.HE STARTING MASTURBATING IN FRONT OF ME[THIS IS A FIRST].HE SHOT HIS LOAD INTO MY BOWL OF CHAMPIONS[AS HE CALLED IT].IT WAS VERY AROUSING.I GRAB HIS PENIS AND SUCKED A COUPLE LITTLE DROPS THAT HE STILL HAD LEFT.HE KISSED ME AND SAID BYE.I ATE THE CHEEROIS KEEPING MY MORNING BOY MILK[ AS THE OTHER LADIES CALLED IT] TO THE SIDE.SOME OF IT WAS STUCK WITH SUGAR.I ATE SOME WITH THE SPOON THEN TOOK THE BOWEL AND DRANK IT DOWN,PROBABLY A CUP.IT TOOK A COUPLE ATTEMPTS TO FINISH IT.I LICKED THE BOWL CLEAN USING MY FINGER TO PUT SOME ON MY CLIT.IT TASTED LIKE SWEET PINEAPPLES,BUT NOW I AM SO HORNY,ESPICALLY BY TELLING YOU THIS THAT I AM DRIPPING WET.I WONDER IF I CAN WAIT UNTIL HE GETS HOME,PROBABLY NOT.I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR MORE SUGGESTIONS ON HOW TO ENJOY HIS YUMMY BOY MILK.WE HAVE TWO FRIENDS COMING THIS WEEKEND THAT SHOULD HAVE SOME GREAT DETAILS.ORAL

[Anal Sex]

Thank you so much. i still am a little doubtful, but made some progress with finger insertions. working my way up to it.

are tthe breathing tech on the ed site?

My husband got me to practice yoga.There is a tantra yoga that is about sex[books,videos,web sites,courses,work shops which are expensive].Don't be fooled by these goddess who advertise,although some are for real.Tantra teaches you your inner spirit,how to have body orgasms and being in touch with your body.This great for men as well teaching them to control their orgasm.My husband is a pure example.He feels orgasms without ejcaulating.A man who had many prostate infections when he was younger.Since he practiced yoga tantra with prostate massage he has none.He is not bi and has never had sex with a man.For me I become totally relaxed,aroused and it seems that it open all the doors to total satisfaction.I do enjoy a smaller object[finger or pocket vib],but when we connect through breathing,eye contact and touch it is easy to acept his whole penis in my rectum.The orgasms are wonderful and my body shakes with pleasure.Do not believe all you read.They talk about cum worship.I worship my husband's cum because I love him and oral is my fetish.I did not learn that from tantra.And I guess there are many ed courses in anal sex.Have fun exploring.Oral

[Bi Or Bicurious?]

Hi,I have only been on this site for a couple of weeks.I see that most people here are very opened minded.I would like to know how many of you are bi or had a bi experience?Also did this involve a third person[another man or women]?My husband has never expressed or suggested having a threesome or me being with a woman.I admire a woman's body and have been thinking what it would be like to have oral with a woman.Oral

[Oral To Anal]

Imagine if you could bottle it and sell it. Like Soy milk only call it "Boy Milk"... or like that Silk soy brand you could call it "Bilk" Ha ha ha OK I'll stop now...

Being with a man who loves humor and joking feel free to postany comments or jokes.I am getting very relaxed with the comments.My husband reads the comments and smiles with a liitle love pat to my butt.He says he will breakfast tomorrow.If I'm right he will share his cheerios.We will see.

[Anal Sex]

Do you/can you orgasm rectally? Is it just the sensation of double penetration (with dildo) that increases the intensity of ones vaginal orgasm?; or is this another aspect of foreplay- feels good / no orgasm. Do any of you know if the sensation for the man is different? As you can tell I'm a bit insecure about all of this, so I need more info to get comfortable with it. Any and all your help is very much appreciated!!!

Yes I do have orgasms by anal,sometimes without stimlation to my clit or dp [finger in vagina].Most of the ladies advice is true.Slower the better.We always start with foreplay and then to vaginal in the doggie style.He keeps a frim grip on my cheeks while spreading them.He then starts teasing my little bum.When he sees it is starting to open[i call it welcoming] ,he inserts my butt plug,which is a very small one.After some great vaginal sex he removes the plug and inserts his penis,just the head and withdraw it out and then inserts it again,sometimes a little popping noise,then little by little he inserts more,with slow thrusts.Then he completely withdraw it and slowly inserts all of him.Using my breathing techs I tighten my abdomen and can grip and hold him like two dogs stuck.Breathing out he withdraws just a little and this always gives me a great orgasm throughout my whole body,usually followed by a vaginal ejcaulation.He says when I grip him it is like when I deepthroat him [firm suction].I have a very small anus but can take all of him[7-1/2] inches.Sometimes after a little spanking fun he just goes for it, as you say.There is some pain at first but it then turns into pleasure.Hope this helps.Oral

[Oral To Anal]

Sorry not trying to insult, just a joke...

Thank You,i guess i'm still wondering what people will think of my fetish or me.i might be crazy but i love it.this sight has also got me totally aroused.i'll soon have to return to work and won't have much time here,but i need to try the cherois.am i stupid?you did not have to say your sorry.oral

[Coming From Just Anal]

Hey guys, my guy and I have been having anal lately and it's been really great, but there is enough slight dicomfort that I can't imagine ever coming from it alone (I can come from clit stimulation at the same time only). I really want to, the idea gets me so hot I could almost come from thinking about it. So my question is; can you come from JUST anal, or do you ladies pretty much always have to have something else going on, like double penetration, or him fingering your clit to help you along? Just wondering if anyone ever actually just comes from anal alone, and if so, whats the trick (does it just get easier over time to the point where it feels orgasmic?)

We usually have sex for a good period of time[kissing,foreplay,intercourse,g-spot massage,oral].After some very good orgasms I love to suck his penis,balls,and massaging his anus.When he shoots his cream in my mouth I get so aroused that I cum and he could enter my anus without any problem,it welcomes him.I suck him until he is super hard and he then enters my anus and within minutes I explode without any other stimulation.If I or he touches my clit I ejcaulate a fierce stream of fluids.While I'm sucking him he inserts a butt plug which really helps in my arousal.When he takes it out and enters me after so many thrusts he gives me the whole shaft and stops thrusting.My body shakes and trembles and once the penis withdrawls just a little is when I have a very extreme orgasm/s.I thought one time that it was urine,so we head to shower for anal as I do want somewhat clean sheets.I feel more relaxed in the shower and can have an orgasm,ejcaulation and urinate.He has to hold me up I am so weak.Relaxing is the key I believe.Oral

[Addiction To Toys]

So i've had my first toy for about two weeks now and i think i'm getting addicted. the first week it was just once every couple days but now its just like twice everyday. Plus my boyfriend and I just bought a whole bunch more of toys and I wonder if being addicted to toys this much is normal?

I was a little embarrassed at first when I first used a dildo.I don't replace toys from the real thing.If you like it have fun,by yourself or with your mate.When I'm with my husband I want his penis,but do love to have a very small butt plug while we are having sex,espically when giving oral.Oral

[Cock Ring]

can you suggest one or two for us to try?

My husband had a dead injury years ago and was not completely hard as wanted.We have a leather strap that attaches around the cock and balls.I suck him until he is real hard and then fasten the strap tight.He gets uncomfortable after awhile so I loosen it to the next snap.As you read getting hair caught is not good.He keeps shaved about an inch above his penis.We just use it for fun now as I love to see him erect or semi when he is just walking around naked.When he is about to cum I release the snap and releases like a volcano in my mouth.Oral

[Tranny's]

Oral, you have some delightful experiences!!!

Pinky,I give thanks to my husband who awoke my inner spirit and lets be myself never denies me anything.Although I want to pursue more with our friends,[Carla and Beth,the shemale and her mate],as they do.Carla would like to have my husband f**k her.I have suggested it but he has not given an answer.They have told us that we are the only couple that they exchanged sex with,but I think my hub does not beleive them.What ever happens,happens.We do both enjoy their company.I have never been with a woman,but adore both of their bodies and we love giving nude massages.I have not sucked Carla's penis and I'm sure hub as no objections if I would,but would expect a condom which would take away the best part.It's amazing that when Carla is naked she is always erect.We compare her with our son who gets erect when the winds blows and asks whats happening.Father and son talk then.We have a lot of fun espically when they tease my hub.He slaps her ass and she bends over,quite funny.Anyway we are thinking of asking them for tests then we can really have some fun,espically me.They are visiting us soon so we will see.Oral

[Oral To Anal]

If you love it so much why don't you collect all those batches and put it on your cheerios. LMFAO!!!

Don't know what LMFAO means and wondering if your being insulting?But I have had him cum on my oatmeal which I put sugar on and ate it all,yum!I will give the cheerios a try.

[Tranny's]

I haven't seen anyone say anything about transexuals here? My wife and I have a couple of movies which we incorporate into our sex life on occasion. I was just wondering if no one else has any interest in these women/men? Does anyone here have any experience with them they would share or are any members here trannys?

Years ago we went to keyWest and were tanning nude on a co deck.A beautiful girl sat next to us topless with a tiny thong.I thought she must have a big mound[above her pussy] and protruding lips.We had a very polite conversation and ending up meeting her for dinner and she brought a female friend.Later that night we returned to our motel[nude pool and tanning area].After drinks we decided to go swimming.She said don't be shocked.Then she stripped her clothes and exposed this tiny penis and even tinier balls,completely shaved.I have to say she was stunning.Beautiful small tittes,small waist and perfect ass.I was jealious of her/him body,although I am in good shape.After swimming her friend and her were getting intimate and she/he got this amazing hard erection.Such a beautiful penis.I by then was playing with my husband's penis.We told them not to let us stop you two and they started having sex.It was very erotic to watch them in a 69,both with women's bodies,yet one with a penis.Her friend went to her bag and put on a strap-on dildo.As she entered her/him in the anus she moaned like crazy.My husband told me to give her a hand[if you know what i mean] and i was jacking her/him off when she stopped me.My husband came over and I was sucking him and her friend jacked her off on my ass.They both licked me clean as my hub shoot his yum in my mouth and I ejcaulated on both of them,watching them enjoy my jucies.what a weekend that was{EROTIC]!!!

[Finger In Anus During Oral? (my First Post Ever)]

you should try some tantra yoga.being relaxed through breathing can relax the whole body,give you better orgasms and controlled orgasms for your man.we always keep lube close by,as my hub can make love for hours.when he feels me a bit dry he put some lube on.i always prefer him to cum in my mouth so after many ejcaulation i love to give him the best oral sex i can.before i massage his prostate i keep one hand on his belly,putting pressure above his penis,gripping his penis then taking him my mouth.i touch,lick and then put pressure to his g-spot[between balls and anus].while I have him in my mouth and a hand on his belly i probe his anus until it's starts accepting my finger.then i put lube on my finger and his anus and insert very slowly.i massage his prostate very gentle and press towards his penis.the size of his erections becomes larger then ever and i deepthroat him to his balls licking them.he goes from seven to eight inches.it truely amazing.i become so aroused he fucks my throat like my pussy.he always like to pull me on top[69] before he comes.this makes me ejcaulate as soon as he shoots into my mouth and our bodies shake.i grip his penis to control his spurts so i can taste his delightful yum,not to waste any,as he swallows what he can of mine.he licks me forever and i keep his penis in my mouth,licking him until it is fully erect again and i always get a second serving.beware when a man can have sex for hours of the huge amounts of cum he will shoot.within an hour it never fails that my anus is begging for a workout and now i never have to use a lube.if it's a good day i receive the 3rd batch.it sure helps when your in love.

[Finger In Anus During Oral? (my First Post Ever)]

This is long, but please forgive me. I want to be detailed to get the best answers in response.

Please don't laugh. I'm new here and not using to typing such detailed information. I'm usually a reader... :-/ But, I have a question and I would like opinions please. From men also....

I read in so many places about instering a finger in a man's anus during oral. Okay, well...I decided to try it this weekend. The first time I tried it, during oral I had one hand on his balls and decided to kind of just move a little lower, and just get REALLY close, not not really GO FOR IT, to gauge his response. I'm 33, and in a relationship with a 22-year-old who has very limited experience, not that I have so much myself, but I knew he'd never don't anything like that either. So, he didn't try to stop me, and he seemed to cum faster than normal. I wasn't sure if I was imaginging it though. His only comment really, was, "I was wondering how much closer you were going to get." So, that evening, I decided to try it again, but I didn't mention it, because I thought he would say not to. So, during oral, I kind of gently moved his leg a little to the side for access, and to see if he said, "WHOA!" He didn't stop me, so I moved his leg a little more and very slowly barely placed my finger to the opening. I wasn't brave enough to go for full insertion. He definitely had a reaction. He let out a few moans, and while he normally strokes my hair, which is long, there were a few noticable tugs...not YANKS, just tugs, and he came VERY quickly. I now considered this a confirmed reaction. So, after completion I waited a minute and then asked him, "You okay?" (He was quiet.) His answer was:" I am soooo confused."

Now, I was not surprised by this. He's young, fairly shy, not real outgoing in the bedroom, but I think that's just because he's only had sex with his high school girlfriend, and the they didn't experiment with much. He is getting a bit better about the shyness in the bedroom, but I still sometimes have to say, "You know, we can try different positions. I'm VERY flexible" things like that. I also read that many many are a little freaked out by the fact that they enjoy the sensation. They think it makes them less of a man, or whatever. I asked him if I hurt him, and he said, no, but his pride and ego were a little in shock right now. I told him, "look, if you really didn't like it, I won't do it again, but from your reactions, you liked it." He said he wouldn't go so far as to say he liked it and that the jury was still out. I said, well, just don't close your mind to something just because it's different. There are nerve endings there, and it's as simple as that. I said, okay, tell me this, did it feel good? He kind of sheepishly responded in a lowered voice, "Yeah, it did."

So, today I finally brought the subject up again and said, about that...it felt good to you, even if you don't want to admit it. I told him, look, I know you're a man, andyou think you aren't supposed to like that sort of thing, but it's okay. A lot of people do it. I said, well, would you want me to do it again, or should I say would you let me? (I thought maybe he would want it, but not want to admit it and therefore ALLOW it and just not ask for it. does that make sense? I hope it did...that was a little jumbly) So, he said, "Just, next time...make sure you wash your hand afterwards." I said, "baby, when I got up and went in the bathroom, that's what I did, you just didn't notice becauase your mind was still fuzzy."

OKAY!!!!!!

So, now that I finished my long narrative, if you have any comments...please give them. But, I have a few questions.

1. Is his reaction normal? The confusion, not sure if he liked it, wanted it again, whatever....

2. IF I do this again, I would likely want to take baby steps for him. How far should I go?? Fingertip? The length of the nail bed? To the first bend in the finger? Do I just judge and see what he reacts to? I'm new to this also...

3. I have nails, not long, but should I use a finger condom? Or will this feel differently?

4. Lots of lube, little? (The firs two times, there was no ACTUAL insertion, so there was no lube and it was kind of unplanned.)

[Finger In Anus During Oral? (my First Post Ever)]

This is long, but please forgive me. I want to be detailed to get the best answers in response.

Please don't laugh. I'm new here and not using to typing such detailed information. I'm usually a reader... :-/ But, I have a question and I would like opinions please. From men also....

I read in so many places about instering a finger in a man's anus during oral. Okay, well...I decided to try it this weekend. The first time I tried it, during oral I had one hand on his balls and decided to kind of just move a little lower, and just get REALLY close, not not really GO FOR IT, to gauge his response. I'm 33, and in a relationship with a 22-year-old who has very limited experience, not that I have so much myself, but I knew he'd never don't anything like that either. So, he didn't try to stop me, and he seemed to cum faster than normal. I wasn't sure if I was imaginging it though. His only comment really, was, "I was wondering how much closer you were going to get." So, that evening, I decided to try it again, but I didn't mention it, because I thought he would say not to. So, during oral, I kind of gently moved his leg a little to the side for access, and to see if he said, "WHOA!" He didn't stop me, so I moved his leg a little more and very slowly barely placed my finger to the opening. I wasn't brave enough to go for full insertion. He definitely had a reaction. He let out a few moans, and while he normally strokes my hair, which is long, there were a few noticable tugs...not YANKS, just tugs, and he came VERY quickly. I now considered this a confirmed reaction. So, after completion I waited a minute and then asked him, "You okay?" (He was quiet.) His answer was:" I am soooo confused."

Now, I was not surprised by this. He's young, fairly shy, not real outgoing in the bedroom, but I think that's just because he's only had sex with his high school girlfriend, and the they didn't experiment with much. He is getting a bit better about the shyness in the bedroom, but I still sometimes have to say, "You know, we can try different positions. I'm VERY flexible" things like that. I also read that many many are a little freaked out by the fact that they enjoy the sensation. They think it makes them less of a man, or whatever. I asked him if I hurt him, and he said, no, but his pride and ego were a little in shock right now. I told him, "look, if you really didn't like it, I won't do it again, but from your reactions, you liked it." He said he wouldn't go so far as to say he liked it and that the jury was still out. I said, well, just don't close your mind to something just because it's different. There are nerve endings there, and it's as simple as that. I said, okay, tell me this, did it feel good? He kind of sheepishly responded in a lowered voice, "Yeah, it did."

So, today I finally brought the subject up again and said, about that...it felt good to you, even if you don't want to admit it. I told him, look, I know you're a man, andyou think you aren't supposed to like that sort of thing, but it's okay. A lot of people do it. I said, well, would you want me to do it again, or should I say would you let me? (I thought maybe he would want it, but not want to admit it and therefore ALLOW it and just not ask for it. does that make sense? I hope it did...that was a little jumbly) So, he said, "Just, next time...make sure you wash your hand afterwards." I said, "baby, when I got up and went in the bathroom, that's what I did, you just didn't notice becauase your mind was still fuzzy."

OKAY!!!!!!

So, now that I finished my long narrative, if you have any comments...please give them. But, I have a few questions.

1. Is his reaction normal? The confusion, not sure if he liked it, wanted it again, whatever....

2. IF I do this again, I would likely want to take baby steps for him. How far should I go?? Fingertip? The length of the nail bed? To the first bend in the finger? Do I just judge and see what he reacts to? I'm new to this also...

3. I have nails, not long, but should I use a finger condom? Or will this feel differently?

4. Lots of lube, little? (The firs two times, there was no ACTUAL insertion, so there was no lube and it was kind of unplanned.)

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Having hot sex with your husband in no way makes you a slut. However unprotected sex, even oral, is risky. Hope you were using protection if you don't know the backgrounds of these young men. Also, if you're not absolutely sure that they were of age of consent, that could open up other set of problems. I just advise you to play safe.

Thanks,on my last message each man had a condom,espically the one who entered my rear end,although i did swallow their cum.this was a couple a years ago.we now have a practice getting physical proof,as our adventures are arranged ahead of time.we are not in a swingers group either.we do have one man that we invite to join us and he always wears a condom.I only take him anal,because of his small penis,but cute.I have never had anyone but my hub vaginal.Yes we must all be careful these days.

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I would love to read about your adventures and I dare to say many others here would be in agreement. We are not here to judge you. This a safe place for erotic adventures, stories, fantasies...you name it. Just scroll through the forum and you will see how delightful sex is in it's myriad forms. As to addiction to cum, well, I don't know about that, but it sounds like hubby is one lucky man.

Thanks,we are both lucky.He treats me like a queen and worships me and my body.I have swallowed only 4 men before.never was the taste bad,but nothing like my hub.When he sweats he never smells and we never have sex before showering.I have even tasted my own jucies on his cock and balls.We love to lick each other clean.he keeps his jewel shaved which makes it more enjoyable,as i do.[first adventure].We went to the beach last year.After swimming,tanning and some drinks I returned to the room.An hour or so later my hub returned and to my surprise was a group of young men[6],all around 18 and older.He took off my towel and put me on the bed naked in front of them all.In a doggie position with pillows under me he entered me while he instructed them to strip.All I could see was these young erect penises.My hub could tell I was getting very wet.One after another put their penis in my mouth.Before I could get my throat relaxed to take them down my throat they were shooting off.I swallowed as much as possible,but I was bathed in cum,then I took my husband's penis down my throat.It was his biggest load of yum I ever received .That evening three return and while I sucked and swallowed them all including my husband,one of them with a beautiful tiny penis entered my anus.I exploded.I enjoyed every minute and every bit of cum,probably 12 batches that day.That was only the begining of our extremely great adventures.