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  1. Breastfeeding Exposed

    in Everything Else

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    Well, I DID breastfeed our daughter for a year, & I am very proud of that fact. I HATED pumping, because it takes FOREVER to pump, and it made my breasts/nipples too tender to actually have her suckle off of me. So, we did it the ole fashioned way, and stopped pumping. I did have back up formula, but, she only took about 4 bottles of it LOL.

    I was VERY discreet on how I fed our daughter. We always asked for a booth in the back, I always had 2 blankets with me, always wore a nursing bra, and tried as hard as I could to have my back towards the public.

    I don't think that it's really appropriate to just flop out your boob and feed the baby. If you have small breasts, it is easier to feed a bit more discreetly, with minimal effort, I've noticed that with a friend of mine.

    Yes, I know that it's the most natural thing in the world, however, there is a form of basic courstesy that should be followed, and, how we did it, I think was the best way to do so. I only had ONE woman give me a dirty look, and, being drained, tired, and just exausted, I actually spoke up and said "Would you rather me have the blanket, and not seeing anything and KNOW what I'm doing, or hear the baby cry for about an hour? Cuz I'm willing to do that too." And I gave her THE LOOK. LOL She left me alone.

    awesome! that is how i would have done it too!! there is no problem with asking for a booth in the back, or turning away...

    you worded it perfectly!!

  2. Shipping Question

    in Pre-Sale Questions

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    I also had this question. I'm worried about receiving flyer's or magazines or anything else in the mail. It's the only thing keeping me from ordering... :(

    Like everyone else said, you will never ever receive anything. and the items that you do order are extremely discreet. no one knows, except if they read the package they'll think 'what the heck is Atlantic innovations... (and why does this person order so much from them.. lol.. wait that's my mailman.. hahaha)

    I love shopping thru here, never have to worry about "junk email" just nice emails :D

    happy shopping!

  3. Progression Of Toys

    in General Sex Toy Discussion

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    i was actually thinking about this yesterday.. my very first toy was a VERY simple vibrator, and now i've expanded (not much, but still) and got a bunny, at first i was very intimidated. and now I have the "bring it on!" idea.. like the badder the better. i want to try it all

  10. Things I've Never Done And On My Sexual To Do List

    in Marriage and Committed Relationships

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    this list took a long time for me to think of... still don't know if I got it right

    (there's a whole list of things i've never done with my husband... so i won't include those, he's not as sexually open as i am :( )

    1. never done it on a beach

    2. never done it under the stars

    3. in the back of a pickup truck

    4. in a pool/hot tub

    5. in a treehouse

    6. with a woman/3some

    that's about all i can think of that i would like to try..

    i can't do much bondage stuff due to my past.. i can't relive that & it would probably be traumatizing. we are a "vanilla" couple..

  12. Vvs

    in Ask A "Sexpert"

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    Please consider picking up these two books and giving them an honest read: 'Intimacy and Desire' and 'Resurrecting Sex' both by David Schnarch.

    you know so many great books that are "sexual health" related, would you mind sending me a list of them in a PM.. that would be so great!! you have read my "concerned" post so you kind of know what our issues are.

  14. Boobs

    in Marriage and Committed Relationships

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    I don't like the looks of the huge, fake boobs. It is so cliche to have big, fake double bubbles. I find a well proportioned natural figure MUCH more attractive than the obviously fake, top heavy figure.

    My wife has natural B's and I think they are fabulous! Especially after two kids. She has gone back and forth on wanting implants. I tell her I'm happy with her's as-is.

    that's wonderful!!

  15. Eyes Open, Shades Up

    in Sex Positions & Techniques

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    Eyes open, when I can... I will look in my husband's eyes many times when we make love, and he into mine. It's part of our loving communication, and the "shades are all the way up". The visual stimulation of watching his face and body as he fucks me is a huge turn-on for me, and knowing he's getting the same visual thrill doubles the excitement. I always close my eyes as I feel myself building up to orgasm... it's reflexive, but also it helps me to concentrate on the exquisite pleasure of feeling and visualizing his powerful cock driving me to orgasm.

    I love watching his face when he comes. His orgasms are so intense, though--when we first became lovers the intensity of his orgasms was almost frightening to me, and over the years if anything they've gotten stronger--his eyes roll back even if he tries to keep them open. And since the feel of his cock swelling and his body spasming when he comes nearly always makes me come too, and since I have never been able to keep my eyes open through an entire orgasm in my life, we always finish coming with our eyes closed, but our hearts open.

    sounds intensely beautiful.

  18. Breastfeeding Exposed

    in Everything Else

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    You were a child yourself...so no I am sorry you didn't completely get it. I know next will be that girls do have babies that young, but that still doesn't give them the decision making ability to handle it. Yes you lived with your parents. You did not live on your own with the child. You went off to school and someone else cared for that child while you were at school so you did get away. So you are gonna say as a pre-teen and teen you had no life or friends at all. That whenever you were not in school you were ALWAYS caring for the baby. I highly doubt that. I could be wrong but somehow I doubt it. Yes you have knowledge of what they are like but as a child yourself at the time you don't completely understand.

    wow.. you just described me.. I had my daughter when i was 15 (i turned 15 a month before i had her), i lived with my parents, my dad made me go to the alternative school 2 days a week, instead of full time.. thank God my mother let me go back to full time, because i wasn't ready to be a mom.. i was only 15. I even tried to pump to breast feed my daughter..

    i might add.. before she was born i thought breast feeding was gross to see, gross to think about doing, and didn't want to do it, but after she was born, my mind completely changed. so don't make an opinion about it before you have children..

    it's like the first time you go to a gyno it's weird, and it's like someone else is poking around down there. but after the 10th time, you just don't care anymore, because it's your doctor. the same thing goes with breastfeeding. the first time you might feel very self aware, but after a few times, you realize that that the world doesn't revolve around you and what you want, it's what that baby needs and wants, and people really don't notice what you are doing, unless they are in direct view...

    anywho. I did go back to school, and i was a social butterfly, and i do have tons of friends. and my daughter is now 5 years old, healthy, happy, and knows i love her to pieces, and we wouldn't be where we are now if i didn't finish my schooling!

    so my opinion, don't make a personal opinion about whether or not YOU choose to breastfeed until you are in that situation!

    and like i said earlier... BRING ON THE BOOBIES!

  20. Breastfeeding Exposed

    in Everything Else

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    hey! want to agree with you on the bottle feeding being fine. my daughter was bottle fed (simply because she wouldn't take breast) & she's fine & really healthy. they make formula so much better now days as well.

    your comments are tame. and this topic was to discuss points of views.. not to get anyone mad at anyone else :D and you have great input, everyone is entitled to an opinion, and there's no reason why you shouldn't be able to share you're just because you oppose.. B)

  21. Boobs

    in Marriage and Committed Relationships

    Posted

    If correcting your bust makes you feel better, I say go for it! I am in the opposite end of the spectrum here. I am a DDD and would LOVE LOVE LOVE a reduction. A full C would be nice.

    My cousin was a B when she got pregnant with her first, and was thrilled when her bust line started to grow dramatically. By the end of the pregnancy she was a full D, and she HATED them. Her back hurt, they were knocking things over ect. Be very very careful what you wish for.

    yeah. that's why i'm not making any moves

    i know someone that had double I's... she had a breast reduction because it was killing her back, insurance paid for it... <_< , they took off over half of the breasts and she still has bigger then DD's... :o

  22. Boobs

    in Marriage and Committed Relationships

    Posted

    ok. i was watching this video on youtube and started thinking,

    What do you guys think of fake breasts??

    I think that if it's done nicely, they are fine, but women that go up 2 or 3 cupsizes (like to DD or bigger) are nuts and i don't think i would like that..

    I want to get my breasts done, because mine didn't fill out and I feel pretty crappy about them, but after getting married i feel a little better, but it affect the way clothes fit my chest & it really affects my bras.. (one is bigger then the other) I often wonder if it's due to my hormone change so quickly, being i was pregnant at 14...

    don't want to get this topic as heated as the "breastfeeding one" so please, just be nice & state your personal opinion :D thanks

  25. Breastfeeding Exposed

    in Everything Else

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    omg.. i think everyone just needs to SHUT UP! about this... we have all agreed, it's healthy and natural, and sometimes baby's refuse the bottle, so what needs to be done, gets done!!

    I was on the other hand, my daughter refused my nipple! they even gave me plastic things to go over my nipple to try to help, and it wouldn't work. i tried to pump. i would pump all day long (literally) and get about an ounce... it hurt that i couldn't fulfill this need for my daughter! but seriously people STOP FIGHTING! WE ARE ADULTS!!

    I'M ONLY 20 & I CAN SEE THAT THIS IS WAY OUT OF HAND!!

    DROP IT!

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