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  1. This is something that I have an opinion on! I suppose before I had kids I was pretty nuetral about it, but that changed once I was a mom. If my baby was hungry, I fed her. If I was in the mall, I did not go to a filthy public toilet and try to balance up against a soggy counter to feed her. I did not spend half an hour (or more) trying to pump milk before I left the house, somehow try to keep it refrigerated and then somehow heat it to the right temperature once the baby was screaming hungry. Why would I? It was perfect straight out of the breast. A friend of mine is a fierce breastfeeder and she says, "If you have a problem with breastfeeding in public, put a blanket over YOUR head." I don't get how breastfeeding is offensive. I think that idea was thought up in the Victorian age. Baby's needs come first!

    yes! jeeze.. i can't believe this got into such a heated discussion.. It's not that big of a deal to breastfeed in public, even before i had my daughter.. it's a natural thing. bathrooms are gross, why do it in there, they have benches in most malls, sit and feed, and when you're feeding, it's not like people can actually see the nipple, the baby has that. it's like wearing a low cut dress, until you are done & covered up again.. and cut the mom some slack, she just had a beautiful baby & is meeting its needs... if people have a problem, then don't look!!

  2. Why is it that it isn't acceptable to have it exposed to feed a baby, but it is expected if you go to Mardi Gras in New Orleans? There are other examples, but this is the most obvious.

    Public breastfeeding is the norm in most countries. Only in the US is it "indecent".

    i NEVER said it was acceptable at mardi gras. i've never been there. and i don't understand the need to flash people...

    i also NEVER said it was indecent to breast feed in public, i'm saying that if you are going to breast feed, have your breast out ONLY for feeding.. no need to pull it out and leave it out for 15 extra minutes (before or after)

  3. I think that what people find to be rude and disturbing is a) the whipping out of the boob with no sense of modesty and B) the fact that it is such a mundane and normal but intensely personal thing. I mean I have no issue witha woman breast feeding but when the baby isn't there put that thing away, we all know it's loaded and could hurt somebody! ;) But seriously i was wicked disturbed when my little sister had her baby, she'd flip it out long before the baby was ready to feed, and then she wouldn't put it away after the baby was done. I think limiting the time that the breast itself is naked and in the public eye is the key. Otherwise, the nay-sayers can suck it!

    exactly... don't have it exposed if it doesn't need to be exposed

    and the clothes/bra's that they make for breastfeeding help a lot with modesty.

  4. My son wouldn't allow anything to be put over his head while he breastfed. He wanted to see my face, and would tear anything covering his face up. I got quite creative when breastfeeding him in public...

    very good point! never thought of that. when i was breast feeding, well it didn't work.. to say the least my body didn't make enough milk for my daughter, not even close :(

    in the end i felt inadequate that i couldn't meet that need for her.

    and i agree with you in the earlier post.. people do need to grow up! Breasts are made for babies to get nourishment from. it's a part of life.

  5. i think that women should be modest about breast feeding, sure it's a natural thing, but still. when I was preggers with my first girl, one of my friends gave me a shawl that i could use as a "tent" when in public to breastfeed, no one would see, of course they'd know what i was doing, but i wasn't exposing myself...

  6. I would wish for The Pink Toy Chest http://shop.tootimid.com/the-toy-chest-small-pink.aspx.

    I had bought the real man cyberskin dildo..yes the big one lols. I also have a blue ice vibrator..so anyways I was cleaning house when I hear running around upstairs. I find out my child had gotten into my drawer in my bathroom in our master and was plying with the Cyberskin. The dog had one end while my 6 yr old was hanging onto the balls for dear life. I was horrified! I dont know what went through my mind first, the fact the toy cost me a pretty penny and it is being turned into a tug of war toy or the fact my 6 year old was having a good ol time playing with it. Well the damage was done the tip was chewed and the balls were party ripped off....poor thing I loved you while you were here :(

    I need this chest to ensure my next purchse of toys are safe from kids and little chew dogs.

    On the bright side I guess it is family fun for all lols

    i'm in fear of the same thing happening to my toys :(

  7. -- It is illegal for any member of the Nevada Legislature to conduct official business wearing a penis costume while the legislature is in session.

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    haha... a penis costume????

    these "laws" are funny... idk if i've broken any yet...

  8. I know we have had this conversation before, but I do not recall the exact details

    I like to keep my Va-jay-jay nice a clean, but lately I've been getting some red bumps and they itch and it's not pleasent :(

    Is there something I can use to make it not be so bad??

    please give me some tips and pointers... i'm sick of the itch and bumps..

    thanks!!

  9. I'm curious If you are a man who has married a younger women any age difference) do you have trouble keeping up with her sexually?

    oooh.. this would be a reason for my hubby to join here! he could tell ya, we are 5 years different, and he is always telling me he can't keep up with me!

  10. ok. this may sound "not to special" but what my hubby and i REALLY need is this box. My daughter has gotten very very curious, and is starting to dig thru my room.

    I will never forget the day my mom found out I had a toy (that God she only saw one!)

    My daughter was in my room with me and my mom and i was picking out clothes for her to take with her to my mom's house for the weekend. the next thing i know my daughter is standing there, giggling saying "look at this grandma!" she hands my mom my vibrator & it's on! i grab it and throw it back in the drawer, while it was still on.. talk about embarrassing! it wouldn't be so bad, except I happen to be a pastor's daughter.. :o

    so this would be very nice and it would be easier to add to my collection without suspicion.

  11. Are we talking INTERNAL or clitoral only?

    both.. i like lots and lots and lots of vibrations.. my very first toy (that i bought here) was the vibe me and i pretty much killed that thing, now after getting a few more toys, i realized that the more vibrations the better. when me and my hubby are going at it i like to take a tiny, but pretty strong, bullet and put it right on my clit... i get off EVERYTIME! and for self play.. i never ever seem to get off.. i recently bought rabbit and have learned that i love it, except I can't get off :( same with the g-spot rose vibrator :(

  12. yeah.. he's weird.. LOL. but i do have to say, i love his balls :D

    i remember when we were dating... well we met at work, then he went back to college 3 hours away. so we did a lot of webcam and msn chats... and he had this REALLY big roommate.. and i was joking around and said "you show me your boobs, i'll show you mine"... well we did..

    then me and my hubby started chatting and getting more sexual... and we teased eachother. the first time he flashed me all i could say is "YOU HAVE THE BIGGEST BALLS I'VE EVER SEEN!" lol....

  13. i know my husband makes faces.. it's so so funny!! it's like he's concentrating, cuz he'll stick his tongue out just a tiny bit. it's so so funny when he cums.. idk if i make faces or anything.. we just enjoy each other's 'company'

  14. i need some opinions....

    i recently found out that i LOVE vibrations.. i told my hubby that i want something that is like a jackhammer *he laughed so hard*

    but what's your opinion, which toys have the strongest (and i mean STRONG) vibrations?

  15. So my husband went into the dr's office for a follow up visit (about his feet) the nurse was talking to him before hand, (i wasn't there, i came a little later), well he sends me a text "i made the nurse blush." i was curious, texted back, asked him what he did, he said he'd tell me later...

    well, once i got to the dr's office i asked him. we were leaving the room when he saw the nurse. "that's the one that blushed" she wasn't very old, maybe 40's.

    so i asked him "what'd you do??"

    he said the nurse asked him if he does regular testicle exams... his reply

    no, my wife would rather do it herself.

    ugh men.. LOL.. but i guess she turned pretty bright red, i giggled...

    purrr. lol

  16. I was listening to some radio on the way into work this morning, and one lady (yes, a WOMAN) said that "People are too scared of marriage. It doesn't take a lot of thought really, just do it." Seriously? Just go ahead & get married, with no thought at all! What are YOUR thoughts?

    i think my brother and his wife got married with no thought, and i hope they get a divorce, even tho that is very wrong

    but i think there should be a lot of thought into getting married!! seriously. it's meant to be fore life!!

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