[Giving My So Anal Sex? Ewwww Gross!]

I would recommend starting off small, with toys, and working her comfort and relaxation levels up. The body's natural response to an intrusion "up there" is to clench and push. This can cause pain.

If she really wants your cock up inside of her, use plenty of lube (you can never have too much), and either let her back up onto you in doggie style, or even reverse cowgirl, where she is on top of you, but with her butt facing your face. Let her be in total control, allow her to put you in her as slow as she wants, do NOT thrust. That way, she knows she's in control, and she will probably be able to relax her rectum a lot easier.

Good luck!

Wife and I recently started with anal play. married for years, kicking ourselves for not trying earlier! Another position to try is in misionary. Place a few pillows under her backside so it makes insertion a little more "on track". That way, you are facing each other and she feels that she is in more of a position to communicate with you. This is how we started. Just humble advice

[Tell Us About One Of Your Fav. Positions]

My favorite is the classic guy on top, but on a futon with a pillow under my butt. The way he does it there is some space between us so I can reach myself and with my fingers so I can help both of enjoy it more. I also love to get on top of him and tease him with a blindfold and his hands tied. Once he is really excited I either give him a BJ or we have sex with me on top.

However..I have two questions on the position topic. There are two things my boy wants to try but I am a bit reluctant.

1) doggie style..we have tried, but it never seems to reach. I can't seem to get him inside of me. It just becomes and awkward position to stay in long enough to have sex. Any ideas..i don't think it has to do with his length. I think it is just weird for him to be behind me like that..but he says the position would feel very good, but we can't seem to make it work.

2) in the shower..I am worried about friction. Sex feels great if I use lots of lube, but horrible if there is not enough lube, I'm worried about it washing off. Does any one have any tips about what kind of lube to use? It has to be fragrance free and safe for my sensitive skin.

-Melissa

Still trying to get the hang of posting on forums. As far as the doggy style position, it may be a case where things dont "line up". Wife and I have same problem, she is 5'11 and I am 5'8. What we find to make it easier is to prop several pillows under her stomach to suppport her, that way she can spread and lower her legs comfortably. Works great for us!!!!!

[Tell Us About One Of Your Fav. Positions]

My favorite is the classic guy on top, but on a futon with a pillow under my butt. The way he does it there is some space between us so I can reach myself and with my fingers so I can help both of enjoy it more. I also love to get on top of him and tease him with a blindfold and his hands tied. Once he is really excited I either give him a BJ or we have sex with me on top.

However..I have two questions on the position topic. There are two things my boy wants to try but I am a bit reluctant.

1) doggie style..we have tried, but it never seems to reach. I can't seem to get him inside of me. It just becomes and awkward position to stay in long enough to have sex. Any ideas..i don't think it has to do with his length. I think it is just weird for him to be behind me like that..but he says the position would feel very good, but we can't seem to make it work.

2) in the shower..I am worried about friction. Sex feels great if I use lots of lube, but horrible if there is not enough lube, I'm worried about it washing off. Does any one have any tips about what kind of lube to use? It has to be fragrance free and safe for my sensitive skin.

-Melissa