[No Rabbits!]

I have one like this http://shop.tootimid.com/jack-rabbit-pearl-vibrator.aspx and OMG, the first time I used it, I O'd in like 10 seconds! lol

[Best "butt Plug" For A Beginner?]

what did you decide LuvnSeXXX?

I went with the Pinkie Plug, but I am saving it to give to him on Father's Day (it's for me to use, but at his request, so he will be thrilled!) lol

[A Little About Me...]

Welcome to TT. I look forward to your posts.

Are you Dan and Jennifer or Ashley and Brett?

Alisha and Brett lol

Dan and Jennifer are just some youtube videos my dh found and posted on there.

[Nipple Clamps?]

I'm looking to get my first pair of nipple clamps, so what do you guys recommend for a beginner?

Thanks!

[A Little About Me...]

My name is Alisha and I am 30yrs old and live in NY. My husband and I both enjoy sex and love to try new things, the kinkier, the better! We've just started our own sex blog and would love it if you guys would check it out and tell us what you think.

I'm looking forward to learning new things and getting to know some of you here!

[What Haven't You Done?]

So I was talking to a friend of mine tonight when it hits me: I have never given a hand job! Blew my friend out of the water too! So we got to talking about other things and it seems to me that the simple things often get neglected, like hand jobs so, what haven't you done?

Hmmm, things I have never done, huh?

I have never...

given road head (also too afraid of crashing!)

had a 3 some, altho the hubby is dying to watch me have sex with another man, or woman

had sex in a public place (unless sex in the van at the drive in movie theater counts?)

done S&M

used a sex swing (would LOVE to tho!)

That's all I can think of for now

[Best "butt Plug" For A Beginner?]

I agree I used to have a lot of hesitation with this and basically swore it off. We started out slowly just with toys and things. Then we worked up maked sure I was highly aroused, used fingers or toys and then his dick. I went through time in the beginning where I learned it was mind over matter. The first time I realized I just relaxed did some deep breathing and then was fine.

Now I don't need toys. Yes arousal is a very keep ingredient as well as lots of lube. We laugh as I ask for it now and quite often, whereas I used to be very hesitant. I think it also has a lot to do with your partner and their patience and understanding. Thankfully mine was constantly making sure I was alright and I knew that if I couldn't or needed to stop he was supportive and would not be upset.

Yes, he's definitely patient and doesn't want to hurt me. It's weird, because it feels good while he's in there, but it also hurts too. I guess I need to just start off with a little plug and work my way up from there.

[Best "butt Plug" For A Beginner?]

Do you like the "in" part but not the "out" maybe? That's my problem with anal. I dont mind hubby inside me at all..in fact i love it...but its the constant in and out that bothers me. I just don't like it. So we use a plug, that way im getting the feeling of being full..but not the discomfort of the "in and out"

Ya, the coming out part usually makes it burn like crazy. We use LOTS of lube, but maybe we aren't using the right kind of lube? It's just some cheap Walmart brand that we have been using...

[Best "butt Plug" For A Beginner?]

those are good to start on....you are probably going to find yourself really getting into working your way up the size scale....FAST!!!

Have fun!

Really? I haven't been too fond of his dick in my ass. It usually really hurts a lot, but I don't mind a finger...

[Best "butt Plug" For A Beginner?]

Thanks! The Pinkie Plug looks like just what I am looking for!

[Best "butt Plug" For A Beginner?]

My husband is really into anal play and while I don't really like actual anal sex, I am willing to try a butt plug. I don't want anything too big around, or too long either. So, can someone recommend a good one?

Thanks!