Hi. No, I'm not Japanese and nor am I one who is entrenched in anime. I'm simply a person who loves different languages and cultures. And no, I will not post my real name. Ever. Sorry. Hmmm....How to start? Well, long story made short? My therapist actually recommended TooTimid to me! Okay, perhaps that shortened long story ought to be lengthened back out a little. So, let me back up. First, let me preface: I am a FIRM believer that everyone ought to have their own convictions but not force them upon others--and no judging! That being said... I had always been the type whose conviction was to remain a virgin until marriage. I would still be so today except for the fact that my virginity was stolen. Yes, people--Rape happens. A year after the first one, I was raped again. Half a year after that, I started receiving counseling over it all. Yay me!, and hence, the therapist previously mentioned. Don't worry; I'm NOT looking for a pity party. As I said, rape happens. It's just a fact. So, summing up that story again... It's interesting how life works sometimes. In some odd, twisted, ironic way, these past experiences of mine has caused me up to open up and claim my life as my own. I'm now a woman--a feminine, sexy, and even sexual woman. And although I do still prefer to behave myself well (as stated earlier, I'm not married. Plus, I am tragically terrified of STDs!), all I can say is--With recovery comes relapse, right? So, if you ever see future postings from me, please don't judge because my convictions say one thing and my actions say another. PTSD, people. PTSD. I am working through it though. ANYWAY, what I'd simply like to say is this: Hi, everybody! I, too, am pretty new and just want to send a great big "Thank you" to all who are brave, honest, and candid enough to post your issues, ideas, and TIPS on this site! I love the articles and greatly appreciate this unassuming and anonymous community. May you all go at it like rabbits tonight! * * * * * Oh, and I apologize for the rant.