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  3. So Much Drama....

    in Rants and Raves

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    Can you block the messages from coming in? We have Alltel, and we can block messages from any number we wish by doing some simple programming. It's actually worked quite well for us because we were being harassed too. The harassment ended as soon as we programmed the phones.

  6. What Do You Think Of This Plan?

    in Marriage and Committed Relationships

    Posted

    I don't want to rain on the parade here, but I hope you are prepared for him to not be interested. I know you are trying to spice up your relationship, but I fear that you may be left out in the cold if you put too much effort into it.

    In the previous thread you asked for advice because he was not taking your advances very well, in fact at times he was flat out rejecting your advances. I hope that you are 10,000% sure that your plan for his birthday is something that he would love to partake in.

    I do hope that your plan works out the way you intend, I just hope that you are prepared to tone it down if he's not receptive to the idea.

  10. Ladies Only My Ass!

    in Fetish & Bondage

    Posted

    For me, we are working on the one physical trait that I can change: my breasts. After 20 years of wishing and hoping, I will finally be having augmentation by the end of this year.

    My personality: I wish I didn't give trust away so easily. That has been biting me in the ass a lot lately.

    For him physically: I'd change that belly. I love my husband to death and I don't really care about the exterior aspect of it, but I know what that extra belly weight is doing to his heart. That belly of his and the fact that heart problems run rampant in his family scare the crap out of me.

    For his personality: I'd change the fact that he's pretty good at bringing out the bitch in me. :huh: We are working on that one too!

  11. Here's To Me!

    in Rants and Raves

    Posted

    Please send some of that "good day" dust this way. I've had moments like that but I haven't had a day like that in ages. I have a feeling that I wont be having a day like that until I'm doing the girlie thing for my husband to come home for his mid-tour leave. I already have the dress and shoes picked out for the airport so I do have something to look forward to, but getting there is going to kill me.

  12. Tell Something Positive You've Learned From An Ex

    in Ask A "Sexpert"

    Posted

    As soon as a guy starts telling you how to dress or prohibiting you from eating certain things, RUN!

    Amen to that! When I was 18/19 (not really sure anymore) I dated a guy that had a thing about he way his woman looked when he was around his friends. Needless to say this relationship didn't last very long. We were walking into a club one night and he was walking in front of me. Before we got to the door he turned around grabbed me by the shoulders and looked me over. He said "You NEED to put some lipstick on." I laughed and said "OK" and put some on as he kept walking. He actually turned and checked to see if I did it before we walked into the club. He was always criticizing my clothing or telling me what to wear. I think we actually dated less than a month. NO ONE orders me around. (Well, maybe in the bedroom! ;) )

  13. Otc Male Enhancement Pills

    in Ask A "Sexpert"

    Posted

    Late last year I was watching some tv and an ad for extenze came on. I was a little intrigued by the whole concept and did a little research on the net on it. Extenze got bad reviews but Orexis got really good ones. I told my wife about this whole thing and she said I was an idiot for even thinking about it. She said she didn't want me any bigger; that, at times, it was a struggle to take it as it was. That did not deter me in the slightest and went ahead and bought a month supply of Orexis. I was pleasently suprised as it DID make me fuller and last longer and ready to go again in short amount of time!

    My question to all of you is anybody else taking any enhancement pills and what is your experience with them?

    I'd be furious with my husband if he went ahead with it even though I already asked him not to. I'm glad to hear that you give the product a great review, but it sounds like you deceived your wife or openly went against her wishes in order to do some selfish research.

    I'd be very skeptical of any male enhancement drug that is not FDA approved. Some of these drugs have been known to put a tremendous amount of strain on the heart and a few men have died of heart attacks because they weren't aware of the side effects of the drug. While the number of customers experiencing adverse side effects may be low, I wouldn't want my husband to be one of those "very low" percentage numbers.

  16. Cyber Sex And Webcams

    in Fetish & Bondage

    Posted

    I never would have looked in this forum for this poll if it wasn't linked from another thread. Because of the situation I am in, I don't really consider this topic fetish & bondage - rather I consider it a requirement of our relationship.

    My husband and I have had and will continue to have cyber sex. A year long deployment is an awful long time for a couple that wants to maintain fidelity. There is no better way for a couple to relieve their sexual frustrations when separated for an extended period of time.

    I really surprised myself the first time I did it. He couldn't be an active participant because of stupid roommates :angry: , but he watched me, and he left his cam on for me, and I could see him licking his lips and swallowing really hard when he liked something I was doing. That was kinda sexy! I couldn't type so he typed messages to me and asked me to do things. The nice thing about my web-cam is it's a USB cam, so I can move it around and get close-ups. He really enjoyed that and I loved performing for him. I don't know why, but it all made me feel incredibly sexy being the object of my man's desire.

    We plan on doing this a few times a month and I have few naughty surprises planned for him. Can you say school girl outfit and pig tails anyone? I recently found a pair of 4 inch "saddle shoes" to go with the skirt I already had. He is going to wish that he was the lollipop I am going to be sucking!

  17. What's My Problem?

    in Marriage and Committed Relationships

    Posted

    I think the fact that the OP can enjoy masturbation is a good sign. OP you don't have to answer these questions to us, but think about them and maybe you and your husband can find a way.

    When you masturbate, how do you like it? Slow and soft? Fast but gentle? Or are you nearly literally trying to double-click your mouse? When you realize how you like it when you masturbate then see if you can show your man how to do something similar. If I pay attention to what's going on down there when I'm having alone time, I do like it gentle which would make sense why I like the technique I mentioned earlier way up there.

    I agree with SuzyP on everything. First, if you are worried about what your man thinks while he's down there, just throw those worries away. If he keeps going back for repeat performances day after day, then he does enjoy being down there. If he didn't like the shave job/smell/taste then he wouldn't keep going back for more. If you've ever given oral to someone who's not-so-clean you know exactly what I'm talking about. Your man does it because he enjoys it, and he's hoping that you can REALLY enjoy it too.

    Second, you probably are thinking too much. This was a fault of mine for a long time also. Once I let go of all the garbage up there, HOLY HELL was oral sex amazing. Honestly if God said "Miss Bunny as your punishment I will take away penetration or oral - you decide." I would get rid of penetration. I would miss it horribly, but that would still be my choice. I LOVE ORAL - CAN'T GET ENOUGH!

    Instead of worrying about what your man might be thinking, why not try a little visual stimulation? Have you seen a girl getting it in a movie and thought "wow she really enjoys that" or "wow that guy/girl is giving it to her pretty good"? If you've seen someone getting oral and thought that it was a beautiful scene then maybe you should capture that scene in your memory and play it back in your head while your man is working down there. I know if I'm stressed I have a difficult time enjoying it, but if I play back a movie in my head all the stress just melts away.

    Good luck with all the advice you've given and just remember to relax!

  19. Is The Dvd Of The Month Club Worth It?

    in Pre-Sale Questions

    Posted

    So far it seems totally worth it. I signed up right at the end of the month and I chose the option to get last month's movies, and I now have 3 DVDs for under $30. I have to say that's a pretty good deal. I've received Penthouse Letters - Night Nurses, Filthy, and Brazilian Heat.

    The only one I haven't screened so far is Night Nurses. Filthy was ok, but I actually like Brazilian Heat better. I probably like that one because the scenery is so similar to where I live. It's just beautiful and I can't wait until my husband is here to have a little fun of our own on the beach. :D

  20. I Cant Fricking Believe This!

    in Rants and Raves

    Posted

    Thank you for your diligence. Because of you and that aide, this poor child's physical nightmare may be over. I hope that the girl can find a way to heal emotionally from this.

    Angelkisses, I can't imagine what you go through when dealing with such a tragedy. I would never be able to control myself if I knew that was happening to a child that I worked with on a regular basis.

  21. What Do You Prefer: Trimmed, Shaved Or Natural?

    in Oral Sex Discussion

    Posted

    We shave for each other. I leave a little runway for him. That is the part that itches the most when it's growing back in, so I leave it cropped and he likes it.

    A few years ago I injured my back to the point where I couldn't get up from a seated position without assistance unless I was HEAVILY medicated. Needless to say, all hair below the waistline quickly looked like I was on a personal mission to attract Sasquatch himself. My husband (then fiance) ran a nice hot bath for me, helped me in the tub, let me soak and then shaved me - EVERYTHING. He first did my legs and then...well, you know. He actually shaved it all to my standard and I didn't have one nick on me when he was done. This simple act told me he was definitely a keeper. ;)

  22. Is It A Myth?

    in Oral Sex Discussion

    Posted

    I just joined this site today and am so happy to have found it Even happier that I can contribute to the conversation already. There is an herbal tea that makes you taste like maple!!! I heard them on PLAYBOY mentioned radio a few months back and people were calling in and raving about it.

    Your post just reminded me that I wanted to get some. The name is Maple Cookie or something like that.

    I think it might be a bit odd if I my husband commented how he was craving pancakes just shortly after a good session of oral sex. :P

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