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I like the MILF type,,Nina is very hot. The ones where the girl is choking,gaging is stupid,,light ass spanking is OK. Wife does not like the rough one too,,the ATM is gross. She kinda likes the plumber repair one where the women(in a robe) stands over him as he is trying to fix the sink! I do think I would rather have my son see a clean(not violent)porno than be brain washed with the crazy unsafe ones out now. Seems they are getting worse every year,,who can do the stupidist stuff next,,,,2 cocks in the ass,,,3 cocks--,,where does it stop? Nina does a good job on her training DVD's. They are not crazy.
I picked up a new DVD tonite
** clarifier ** I am a single 48 yr old male.No SO at the moment.
Typical g/g scene dvd.Why..its entertaining..but when been coupled.My favorite movie.Of all times is 9 1/2 weeks.Its great Soft Porn..that couples can get into role play/fantasy..etc.Highly recommended DO NOT GET version 2 Get the original Directors Cut.Think your wives will approve..and get to feeling Randy as ther UK likes to say
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So my girlfriend and I watched Bound Cargo. They have mostly all erotic girl movies. I would not say it is regular porn ( a little softer) but never the less it was some of the hottest scenes I have ever watched! I could not believe how much my girlfriend was into the movie! The movie was kind of a female dominance thing but done totally tasteful.
Glad to see you both sharing erotica with each other.VS hiding it one from the other
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OK here's my feeling on this topic... I think porn, like anything if used in MODERATION is fine normal and serves a purpose.
My issue is when, in some cases, it gets out of control, for some guys. Obsessing, objectifying, collecting clips and sneaking around... you know what I mean! If it becomes an actual NEED then it is a problem.
I think porn is for mature adults. If you are exposed to it at too young of an age I feel strongly that it can cause confusion between reality and the "entertainment value" of porn. In the same way, I think it sets unrealistic expectations of how women are supposed to look. Which causes a LOT of insecurity in women, thinking they have to measure up and look like/act like them to please their man. It takes a mature person to be able to know the difference.
I have felt the insecurity sure. It was a real issue for me for a long time and affected how I felt in bed! I felt like I was just a vessel for him to use while fantasizing about his porn stars!! It really messed with my head for years!!
We talked it out and after a lot of things that happened in our marriage, he stopped watching. Now I have a very different perspective! We fulfill each others fantasies we are turned on by each other not the flicker of the TV!!
We don't watch porn in my house but sometimes we make our own!
SUNFLOWER way to go...men are visual.Women are emotional.I think couples making their own Private Porn is very erotic..and helps keep the passion alive for us CAVEMeN..has to feel better knowing hes jacking off to your TWO's last love session..than a silicone queen
Tips hat
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Haven't had to deal with this myself (current SO has no porn collection other then the one DVD I gave him and exhubby denied having any - who knows if that was true) .......... however not long ago help a very dear, long time friend deal with this.
She has been married 20 yrs - about 10yrs into their marriage she found a large # of playboy magazines - her hubby said he rarely if ever looked at them and proceeded to toss them all at her request. Unfortunately they did not discuss it any more at that time. Fast forward to about 1 yr ago - again she found a large collection of printed porn while they were rearranging and cleaning out a walk in closet. She was very upset and hurt - mainly because they have a very meager sex life due to lack of interest on his part - it seemed to her that the printed porn was a substitute for sex with her.
Her sex drive has always been stronger then his - she has dealt with it by using toys whenever she was interested and he wasn't. He has never been willing to use toys (or oral sex or mutal masterbation) as a part of their sex life as he feels straight forward intercourse should be enough to satisfy her.
When she talked to me about it I encouraged her to at least try to talk with him to see what he wanted/needed in their sex life and also to help her to understand that porn is rarely an instead of.......well in her (or should I say their case) it was an instead of - he state he enjoyed looking at the porn more then actually having sex - "it's just easier, less energy on my part and I don't need to worry about whether or not you're satisfied". he went on to tell her that his had been his preference his whole life - it was the same in his first marriage.
So at least now it's no longer a hidden subject - she still is hurt, yet realizes it is not a reflection on her - that it's his issue. unfortunately neither of them are willing to do anything more about it.
My contribution ....... a willingness to listen and to give her a vibrator on her birthday every year so she can continue to enjoy herself.
So sad..as this just wreaks of lack of communication,
I think more honest communication.Sharing of his kink,perversion erotism with his wife.may re VAMP their sexual union.But as long as one does it in private.leaving the other in the dark.She is better off on her own .Mutual masterbation infront of each other..expressing how they want touched etc..could possibly restore their passion for each other
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k, my ex-husband masturbated anally. He hid it from me for YEARS and YEARS.
Just found out my boyfriend does it too. Hey, I knew he liked anal play while we had sex, but stupid me didn't think about him masturbating his anus while touching his penis...
How common is this? It's NO BIG DEAL, I'm just more surprised than anything. And I know I shouldn't be...
At late 40's have become more anal erotic.Only suggestion is communication.Hell you maybe become a Domme to a Bend Over Boyfriend..and Like it If A man wants a woman's ass.he should understand how it feels
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So we attempted it today and it didnt work...we couldnt fit his penis in me...I tried relaxing and everything, but we just couldnt do it...were going to try again soon...i hope it works next time.
Slower and smaller and first. Can’t be stressed enuf.
Something I haven’t seen posted here is the following...
Mint toothpaste..Your thinking Huh
With a liberal amount of mint toothpaste...and a very wet finger..applying some to your rosebud..will add a nice erotic tingling sensation.
That is not permission for him to mount you.And rip you apart..look at it as teasing Foreplay..while he is fingering..licking your pussy.But always a mild Tingle BACK THERE..and leave it at that.
Next session..while its tingling..let him add a finger..or oral anal BJ to you.You getting the picture ? Try it ALONE..once you feel that tingle..you will become more open minded and aroused with the idea of anal play
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My current SO loves anal and we do that as much or more than vaginal. My last partner and I never did anal in three years of sex even though I offered and he knew that I did anal during solo sessions. He talked about it a lot, but we never did it. Nowadays when I have solo sessions, I almost always incorporate anal into the mix.
It may not be the same for everyone, but I think for me, once I became more comfortable with the idea of anal sex (having been taught that was an exit only orifice) and allowed myself to enjoy it, I figured out I really do like it and want it. That combined with SO's love it has increased the frequency for me. Maybe it is kind of the same for others. Once people become more comfortable with their bodies and their relationships - and the role their body plays in the relationship - they allow themselves to accept many different aspects of intimacy, including anal.
Having just joined,
I have made a very obvious survey .Seems the older we get. (based on age posts of over 30 ) The more open minded we become.Coupled with lots of Internet information,We realize we are not redheaded stop children. And through Forums like these. The more open minded others will become.
My 2 cents
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There are certainly some VEEERRRY LUCKY men out there. Too bad I'm not one of them!
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Love giving and recieving..as for the hairy assholed men..I take measures to avoid having that
Love licking a womens most private place
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As been posted many times here.Start small..with small butt plugs.And work your way up.it isnt a race..its a journey
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^---EXACTLY!!!
I had a favorite anal toy I liked.but IT burned like hell.So stopped using it.On a whim. I covered it in a Latex free glove..cut the fingers off the glove..no burn..so maybe an allergy as mentioned.And not that anything is wrong with you.I now use that favorite toy with a condom.Problem solved
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haha it was the opposite for me and my bf
i had considered doing it before he said anything, i hinted at it, and i guess he was thinking it too cause a few days later he mentioned it!
it just takes a little bit to get over the stigma and kinda warm up to the idea, but now were both totally ready...
Late bloomer here .Something that has been a hit and miss thing with a couple of women.
But as I get older and more open minded.I have enjoyed more anal play on myself. Prosate health being part of it .Butt only part of it. The BOTTOMLINE * pun intended * is that anal prostate play..is just different, and more intense in many ways than conventional sex.
Enjoy your experimentation. And share your results
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I started to answer a previous question about “Anal eze” and decided to expand on the answer to hopefully provide anyone interested in anal sex on how I was able to bring my wife into actually enjoying anal sex.
When we were just beginning the adventure of back door play my wife and I tried anal eze. It will numb you down a bit so your anal sphincters have a better chance of relaxing, instead of contracting and clenching / closing up all the time. What I did to lessen the cost of buying anal eze was to find and read the key ingredients in anal eze. It was Benzocaine 10 – 20%. I found that most all the “anesthetic oral gel’s” on the market for gum and tooth pain relief had the same Benzocaine in them as Anal eze. So I bought the Rite Aid or Longs generic “oral gel” and mixed 1/2 to 1 full tube (1/2 oz tube) of oral gel in with like 2/3rds to 1 full tube of generic KY jelly in a Tupperware container. Then I would use this in LARGE amounts on her anus and inside to about 2 – 3” deep. This way her sphincter was slightly numbed and she could relax more, and get used to anal play. She could STILL feel PAIN if something hurt her. I knew that if she said it was anything more than “uncomfortable” to back way off as she was less sensitive due to the numbing effect of the benzocaine. Sometimes it would “sting” her on contact probably due to some type of small cut or hemorrhoid so we would stop all anal play. I would always wear a condom while using this home made “anal eze” so I would not get numbed too. (Condoms also prevented the urinary tract infections (UTI’s) I would get from any unprotected anal to penis contact.
This does NOT mean I am saying for everyone to run out and make up some super strength home made anal eze potion and slather it on their partners so they can bang away!!! NOT AT ALL! I started out very slowly, finger first, then with the passing of a couple months, I would “single finger play” for 5 minutes then when she was totally relaxed, I would add a second finger, so she would have two fingers inside. After a few months of intermittently times of doing this, I finally tried full anal sex with her. Even then, sometimes I would only be able to just go in and sit still for a while, then have to stop as it was “too uncomfortable” for her. (She did not like anal play but would allow it infrequently to please me). After a year of this SLOW approach I was able to enjoy longer and longer sessions of infrequent anal sex. Then we stopped using ANY benzocaine or rubbers. I found that the bladder infections I used to get from anal sex without using a rubber could be eliminated and fully avoided / cured by taking D-mannose powder before and after anal sex.
Most recently (Now probably 2 years into having anal sex once or twice a month as a treat), my wife began letting me have anal sex once a week! (Wahoo!) In the last two months SHE has COME to enjoy it as much as I do! (I hope and think she is about to even WANT it more than once a week!) Now SHE is having intense orgasms by lying on her back while having anal sex, (me lying on my side, at her side). She and I masturbating her vagina as it is accessible to touch and finger insertion due to the anal sex, vs. vaginal sex not getting in the way of easy access (to her vagina). This is no small event as my wife has only had 1 vaginal orgasm as a result of vaginal sex over 16 years of marriage. She gets her cookie when ever she wants it through asking me for oral, which I am more than happy to provide.. She has also in the last month started taking "Passion RX with Yohombie" and says that it has actually increased her desire for sex.
So for those of you guys who want anal sex the key is: Lots of communication, patience, slow small steps, more patience, never forceful, building trust, being trust worthy, giving lots of love and romance in between times of sex. Giving HER the romance she desires to a point that she will allow you to play with her ass in a return favor, not bantering and talking her into allowing it. I think it takes a committed balanced marriage for someone to trust the other that much to allow that type of vulnerability and intimacy. Take it S-L-O-W! (Tons of lube too). I think I read a survey that said only like 46% of the women out there have ever even tried anal sex. Like something around 16% went on to enjoying it. Lets improve on helping our women ENJOY anal sex.
Take your time, enjoy the ride, hope this helps.
HornToad
I was just getting home from the store.Having picked up the same products you described.After reading the label of Anal Eze
I am a straight male.Anally erotic.So was interested in trying the effects of Anal Eze.Apreciate you sharing personal experience with it.And look forward to trying it tonight
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Your tits are wonderfull to look at . have you ever use nipple rings they would look great on you
Quite the contrary..loevly natural pert breasts
New member..just joined.have enjoyed reading your posts
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Good Porn Websites For Women...was This Already Listed?
in Woman & Adult Movies
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doing a search for MILFS..tends to retrieve more realistic Non Teen looking women