[Ouch!]

NOW THERE'S A MAN WITH A HIGH PAIN THRESHOLD

Would not like to been the guy that had to tattoo him...

[Question For Women]

I like lots of fore play and our sessions on the week ends last for a about 3 hours or so, sometimes longer. When its the week nights, it about an hour or two. He likes to take his time as much as I do. Why rush the good stuff in life?

[Favorite Lube For Anal?]

I have used all kinds of lube but I have found something that is better than the usual water based lubes. Some say it can be compared to boy butter and that is don't laugh.. Crisco and mineral oil together. The Crisco melts with the body temperature and it last longer and when mixed with mineral oil, applications are fewer. Long showers are need afterwards but it is well worth it

[I'm Curious!]

Me? I would rather have anal sex then vaginal. But love both.

[First Time Anal--probably Tmi]

Ok, so this is a little embarassing, but I'd like some insights from you folks with experience/expertise. We tried anal intercourse for the first time last night, after some discussion over the past few weeks and exploring with fingers and toys. We both loved it; I don't know why we waited so long. We're nearly 40 and been married 16 years;

We've been married for almost 20 and started anal 2 years ago. Both of us wished we had started sooner.

On the cleanliness of anal. I have learned to read my body. When there is fecal matter present, my body refuses to take anything anally. So often I try to accept toys or a penis, it just won't go. Then after plain boring sex I find I have to have a very small bowel movement. The body knows better. We just sometimes refuse to listen. Hope that helps

'roids, can't help ya there

[Best Butt Plug That Will Stay In During Sex?]

I need one that will stay in. Me and the hubby have bought a couple of butt plugs we play with during anal, but I really want one that I put in DH that will stay while we have sex. Any suggestions??

I don't know of any unless you use the one that pumps up. But all the others usually come out at some point. Maybe using kegal (sp?) to keep the plug in?

[After Effects]

It took my wife many years to enjoy anal. Now she enjoys it a lot. We have anal intercourse about once per month, but then again we only have regular intercourse about once per week, so that makes it fairly frequent.

My wife used to get diarhea and similar problems afterwards. Something that helped a lot is having me wear a condom. Yes, a lot of lube gets shoved up there during the act, but not adding the ejaculate seems to have hepled. She certainly is a lot happier about the after effects when I wear a condom.

I certainly don't mind wearing the condom if it means a happier wife who enjoys anal sex, so I readily volunteer to wear them. I also have a very large prince albert piercing which tend to get a little dirty without a condom, so that just helps things stay cleaner all around. Anyway, hope that helps. As for the soreness, try using more lube. Especially when you are new to anal, it's difficult to have enough lube. When it seems like too much, it might be enough.

Practice will help with relaxation, which will also reduce soreness. Also, it may be easier for you to relax and accept anal if you are super aroused - as funny as that may sound. My wife likes anal best if she has already had an orgasm or is very close to orgasm. If my wife gets in the right mood, and the right position to relax but is very aroused, she can take my full penetration sometimes without hesitation, and I can thrust as hard as possible as much as I want, and she will enjoy it. In fact, my wife almost always has an orgasm during anal intercourse, with no other stimulation.

Hope this helps. Have your husband try the condom and see if that doesn't help.

We have sex about three times a week and anal, if I can, twice a week. Like someone said earlier, sometimes the bum just won't accept anything. I have to been in the mood for anal which is all the time, but sometimes the body isn't and hubby knows just what to do to get me going. I have to be super aroused to accept him.

[After Effects]

The only 'trouble' I usually have is lube leaking out and messing my underwear and sometimes my pants. After a really healthy fuck my ass literally tingles and hums from just a few hours to 2 or 3 days afterwards. I enjoy the afterglow and often find myself gigling and feeling like a wanton slut. It really floats my boat.

Love to hum a few bars myself. I usually take a shower for 15 minutes afterward. I hate going to bed messy. Sometimes we use *Cough* crisco *Cough* to help with friction if ya know what I mean. And of course, it takes a long shower to get all that goo off.

Anyhoo,

it sometimes maybe the lube one uses if they have a problem with being irritable. I noticed when I combine mineral oil with the *cought* crisco *cough* it takes the pressure off bowls and my bladder. That may help.

[Hello]

Thanks for the welcome and I will look around.

[Hello]

I'm Whispering and I love this site. Glad to have found you folks.

I'm 44 years old and in love with my husband who found me this site and pointed me here. We we just getting into Anal (wished we had did this a long time ago) and this was the site that I found to be very informative. Him and I visit this place often and I just decided to join in the fun.

Looking foreword into learning more on the subject of SEX.

Whispering

[After Effects]

I love anal. I love feeling the tingling afterward when its finished. Its still a turn on hours after. What I have a problem afterwords, is urinating. . It takes time and sometimes it will take a few trips to the bathroom. Other times, there are no problems and its easy to go. I guess its different body types that have different affects afterwords.