Hi Everyone- New Here

[samhotdude]

hi i am a married indian (east) male 30, currently working in middle east as an architect.

wud love to talk to other hubbies/ wives in general. btw i am married to a prude catholic gal.

looking forwatd to chat with u all if possible.

i love to post pics in other free sites indcluding flickr. Hoping to post here at the earliest possible

thanks and tc

sam

[WendyNY]

Wecome to TT !!

Perhaps you can get your wife to enjoy the site also.

There are lots of great topics on here that will help of both of you.

Looking forward to reading your future posts !

[samhotdude]

thanks wendy. hope to convince her

[Sensual Confection]

suggestion - Maybe you could get your wife to 'be more open and willing to discover new things' if you asked her about making a joint account for just you and her.....together .. that way .. if she is willing, you two could 'investigate' a few things together - even reading the reviews (well some of them) about the toys can be enlightening! Then, maybe .. she will get curious on her own and start 'checking' a few things out .. and maybe open up a bit .. and try some new/fun stuff with you!

I hated when my husband did porn 'without' me .. and TOO often.... our marriage counselor suggested a joint account - it wasn't that I wasn't willing to enjoy some porn - try new things - etc. WITH him, he just never would give me a chance . .. so I felt as it his 'secret' stuff was cheating on me and that he wanted to keep something from me which to me is not acceptable -- open up and trust each other and fall in love all over again (then again .. we are coming up on 21 years...so we have both had time to build and damage and rebuild the trust a few times!) Knowing we are both committed to each other - forever - he willingly (after a few slightly heated discussions) got rid of his accounts and we created a new gmail account 'together'.

Now we share time together checking out toys sites, porn, etc. But, we can also each go on alone .. and if we find something that 'we like' - for instance I like the cum shots ... and am not much into seeing the people's faces in the porn - then I can download/share the links with him and show him things that 'make me horny' or links to toys that look interesting to me .. for me and / or for HIM...

This has opened up a whole new world for us -- stuff he said he would NEVER be into .. .. well --- I have created a sex monster! He is a lot of fun in bed now .. he has a bag of quality ropes, toys, lubes...I never know what he might do! We still enjoy plain old vanilla sex, too.. but when we have a little more time (which we seem to be finding the time these days!) then we are exploring new ways to enjoy each other and are having many more orgasms .. daily! (no more once of month stuff here...)

Good Luck!

[Sunday]

wow SC, congratulations! It's great to hear success stories like these. Yes, not keeping secrets is necessary for trust, and trust is necessary for a good relationhip and great sex. You and DH are very lucky to have each other.

[Drfinger]

hi turning 42 in a few weeks I have never had an orgasm with my with any of the guys I've been with the only time I would reach orgasm is with my jack rabbit thar I secretly uses

my husband is very close minded when it comes to sex and trying new things we don't communicate. at all when it comes to sex sex seems like a chore that's why it's been in November since we last had sex and it does not bothers neither him or me he don't even attempt to touch likewise me him. I had sex in January with my ex and it was so good that I missed having sex with him. the only sex I'm having for the last 4 months is with my jack rabbit and its very fulfilling. need help and advice please help.