I just returned to this message board after, what, two years.. and I made my first post in a thread about where people are on their sexual journey in life. I've decided to use my post there as my first blog entry also, because it describes pretty well where I am and what I want. So here goes: When it comes to my husband's and my journey together, I'd say we're right at the beginning, at least when it comes to positive change. We've been married for only 3.5 years, yet our sex life is dead. It