VadersVixen

Hello! I am new to this mb as well. I have been reading older posts and found this community to be refreshing and welcoming. So, thanks for having me!

Hello! I am new to the mb and just recently started a D/s relationship with my husband. We don't want to be a 24/7 everyday couple, just sexually he wants to dominate me. Part of our agreement is that he can touch me/tease me anytime he wants and anywhere (this is 24/7). Well, I'm having a hard time complying with this as I keep forgetting and reject his advances. He wants to start punishing me for not letting him. I am NOT a slave but a submissive and only sexually. In my "real life" I am actually a HUGE control freak. Anyway, he wanted to spank me but I love erotic pain, so that is out of the question. He would be rewarding my bad behavior if he was to do anything physical/sexual. Does anyone else have any NON-SEXUAL/NON-PAIN ideas? I have looked online and the suggestions don't really fit the "crime" so to speak. Thanks so much! ~VadersVixen