Hi everyone, I'm a 20 year old virgin. I'm in a relationship at the moment and we've talked about sex. I just have one hang up, my tightness down there. To give you an idea, I can fit one finger in my vagina and that's a tight fit. I've seen my boyfriend naked and I'm doubtful I could fit his penis in me, even lubed up. I know first time sex is rarely comfortable for the woman, I'm more worried that it's not possible. So, how can I loosen up down there?