Davepat

Thanks for all the support I'm happy that others think this is a good idea. I usally get the answer when I ask that she doesn't think about things like that. I do continue to try by little things like texting and saying I think we need a toy night tonight. I have also thought about a grooming evening where we take care of each others pubic areas which always leads to arousal. I will continue to try and open her up, no pun intended. I would also like to know what other people may have on a bucket list and we can maybe help others achieve something we haven t thought of ourselves. THANKS again

Great advice and Thanks. I have been doing some playing with my fingers and tongue and have found getting her good and wet with her own juices and also my mouth helps. I can feel her pushing herself towards me as she is working the vibe. I have also found that sliding my finger tip inside her as she gets ready to cum seems to bring the orgasim to another intensity level. I also try and slide my finger in here as I'm riding her doggy style. I do understand the starting small and appreciate the words of wisdom. I just know deep down inside once we get there it will be amazing. I also continue to want to have her explore doing me.

I enjoy making love but also wonder is a sex bucket list a bad idea? I guess as we get older is it wrong to want to try different things? I personally have opened up completely to my spouse and will let her do as she pleases to me but she really isn't to the point I am. On the other hand I have told here that I will be there for whatever she wants from me. I think it just may open a whole new world of love making once something is tried and enjoyed. If its not enjoyed by both then is should be stopped and maybe revisited later on. Hope to get pointers and experiences to share with her.

That is good news as I have been wanting but there has been too much discomfort for her. I even bought a strap on and asked her to do me hoping it would help her find a way to enjoy. Any advice I can get would be a big help. By the way I got harder than a rock when she was doing me.

New here also and looking forward to the same

Looking forward to all sorts of info to make things more exciting than ever. Open to everything.