bgirl67

Just wondering what is the best clit pump on the market. Just bought one and was disappointed. The suction is awful. Suction seems to be the key, but I see many complaints in my search.

Thank you so much for your suggestions. It is very devastating to both of us. We will definitely look into what you have suggested. Last night I got "all ready" and then suddenly remembered we couldn't. UGGHH!!!!!!

We were devastated to learn that our insurance no longer considers ED drugs as "necessary". We stopped at the pharmacy to pick up his prescription and it rang up as $240 FOR SIX PILLS. Who can afford that? Insurance won't cover anything! We used to pay $40 for six pills. Not even sure what to do. We can't do much without them. He is young , but other medication interferes with him maintaining an erection for more than a couple minutes. We are frustrated.

We had tried anal some time ago, but it was very painful. I have spent a lot of time trying to figure this out, because I really wanted to do it. He would use his finger in me, but I wanted much more than that. Over the weekend I told him to put one of my nice sized dongs in there and I figured out if I beared down during insertion, it eliminated the pain. So..... Last night he started acting like he wanted to put himself in there. I told him to use lots of lube. He took it slow until he was all the way in. OMG, when he got in there it was the most INCREDIBLE feeling. He was beside himself with the way it gripped him. He was being slow and gentle, but I eventually told him to "go for it". He "went to town" on me and I was so extremely turned on. My vag. was so wet from the pleasure of it and there was no pain. Let's just say....I've never heard him cum like that before. It was INCREDIBLE!!! I think the key for me was bearing down (as if I was trying to eliminate). It was perfect and I can't wait to do it again!! I hope this wasn't TMI.

I am new to this site but enjoy all the good advice. We recently started using sex toys (I didn't know what I was missing after 15 years of marriage) Wow! Now we really want to have some good anal sex, but the couple times we have tried it, it hurts. We do use lube and I am not afraid to keep trying --because I really want it. I'm not sure if it's angle or some other problem. My husband has a pretty good girth, but we have tried toys anally and it's awesome. Perhaps someone could give me some different angles or different positions. Has anyone else experienced this problem. Thanks