good evening... i'm dating this guy for more than 8ys now. and i sometimes feel that i want a bit more challenge in our sex life. he was this very hot and sexy friend that i really like and wanted him to invite for a 3some with us. but seams like he's not in the same page... i don't know if i should insist. or just give up on this fantasy. or maybe i should just think about another girl that's not his friend. im getting really confused, cause he wants to do everything for me, but at the same time he's not making any move to be with her... thanks