[Something New]

I am new to this type of forum and here goes.

My wife and I have been married for 9 years. We dated for 6 years prior to getting married.

We have 2 adorable children and good jobs.

Recently I have returned to school in another country and soon wil be reyruning home for good. I have been home for breaks every 4 weeks for three- four days at a time.

Our sex lives are pretty normal. Very little in the areas of crazyness.

I want to get things revved up again like the way it was when we were in our early to mid 20's.

I have always tried the soft sentimental methods of using candles, a vibrator, and some porn. Now she says she likes the acts but not in a real convincing manner to me. It seems like I'm the one who initiates all of these ideas.

How can I get her to initiate some of these ideas or get her to come up some ideas of her own. I have talked to her about going out and being creative, thinks about fantasies and the like but she declines the opportunity and we go back to the same old- same old routine.

Can someone offer some help that I can help her through this difficulty.

Thanks

[Do It With Bf]

You appear to be a confident woman. My wife and I are distantly apart as I returned to school in another country and she is home. I have tried to get her to masterbate and use a vibrator when I'm not there to satisfy her needs, but she is reluctant to do or use the toy when I'm there or gone. I could use some advise on how to perduade her to use these items and pleasure herself. Any ideas how this can be done?

I love it.  It's a way to relieve all the sexual tension since my boyfriend lives out of town and don't see him everyday to have the hard core sex we usually love.  I love it when I can try new things whether it be the largest dildo ever or taking a smaller one anally. My boyfriend and I love to do it in front of each other.  We get so turned on and by the time we finish, we are ready to fuck each other so hard, most of the time we fuck all night long.  If you haven't tried it, I urge you to!

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