U know, I'm in somewhat a similar situation w/ my man. At 1st our sex life was AMAZING, -& u being a guy lol u should know that guys LOVE sex!! Well, He's a tire technician & works 10 1/2 hours a day and comes home completely drained. So his sex drive has taken a dive in the past few months & it sucks (4 me neway lol) !! Even though I get frustrated a lot, I still love him to death & wouldn't leave him cause of it, -and so I have to agree with what someone else said. Find a way to please yourself & think of her while doing it. That way when you finally are intimate with each other things will be really passionate, like nothing has changed. To me, it gives you something to look forward to. Hope something I said made sense. -xoxo