Well i am in a sexless marriage becasue my husband is ill. I choose to stay but its gets harder everyday to stay.. its been years since we had sex,. He is more like a patient to me now and i dont know what to do. i beleive in the vows i took in sickness and health but you know i really dont know how much longer i can last. He been sick for 7 years and the sex was on and off until the last 2 years it been nothing i know its because he is sick but am not. and you know u start to look at them differently after awhile like i said i see him as a patient and someone who needs taking care of not my husband. sorry but rambling everready66