jaylo

my wife will give me bj's but wont let me cum in her mouth or anywhere near her face for that matter.she says its degrading.any ideas to make her more at ease?

I am currently in iraq and haven't seen my wife in 8mo. I can't masturbate for some reason,I've tried just can't.But my wife asked me a good question on the phone.Why dont I have the condition known as" blue balls?" And is it connected to the fact that I cant masturbate?