ok, so after 20 years of being married to a terrible lover I discover he wants to be submissive. Like tied up, controlled submissive. Last night we had our first experience with it and it was AWESOME! My problem is I dont know what he wants me to say and of course, like always, he wont tell me. He did do everything I said but I just don't know where to go past the handcuffs and blindfolds. Need help. how to I establish the basics of this type of sex? Although, I think he would love it, the mistress thing is not coming easy for me! How do I get myself more comfortable in this role, and by the way I am totally okay with it.
