dressagegirl

Doing better, thanks for all the advice. Everyone has been very helpful. I decided to stick with the glass toys that I have and just be patient and try things out. I must say that I have been more successful since I've been patient with myself. I've also decided to take some of your advice and get a bullet or something since they are having some free ones offered on the site. Thank you ladies for your help.

The first one was: http://www.tootimid.com/the-blue-swirl.html Can't find the second one, but it was free last week. It's the Taffy Tickler Silicone Smoothie. The lube is http://www.tootimid.com/astroglide-gel-water-based-lubricant.html and I used quite a bit. The first toy i couldn't use at all, and the second, I could only get the smallest part inserted.

So, a lot of people think that I am nuts when I tell them that I am a virgin and I'm 36. I grew up going to church until I was 31, and when I dated, you just didn't have sex before you were married. I have since left the church, but really haven't found anyone that I want to be intimate with because I haven't met a lot of guys my age that are single. Anyways, I have pleasured myself frequently since I was about 15 or so, so I know what I like as far as that is concerned, but I just bought my first toy on this site and am having issues with it. My friends said to get glass because they are the best for hygiene, temperature play, and also better for the environment, so I bought one and got the other free. They arrived in the mail today along with some lube, so I wanted to try them out right away. When I tried to use them, I couldn't get them inserted very far at all. I can insert two fingers in without any discomfort, but even the narrowest end wouldn't go in very far. I don't want to really hurt myself. Any advice?