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I found this on a web site about anal play...It makes sense, you and your girlfriend may want to take this into consideration. Never use an anal cream that desensitizes. Not only will this reduce enjoyment, it could lead to the receptive partner being hurt without realizing it. Their cues of how comfortable they are and how relaxed as you penetrate them are critical, and they can not give you accurate feedback if they are numb. Maybe you could start out with a slender toy or you finger with lots of lube (astro-glide lube is awesome) that way she gets used to the idea first. Who knows, maybe she could try it on you too.

If he was so wonderful he would not be cheating on his wife and 2 y.o.!!! I think somewhere deep inside, you know it's a bad idea, otherwise you wouldn't have posted the question. If you choose to stay with him (which can only lead to heartbreak) make him use a condom!!!!! Don't take the risk. If he's cheating on his wife, chances are he's cheating on you (regardless of what he says). Obviously I don't know you personally, but you (as do all women) deserve better than this guy is giving you. You say you don't want to lose him, but face it you've never had him! Walk away now while you still have your dignity and health (who knows how many other people he has had unprotected sex with!). If you can't walk away now....protect yourself (MAKE HIM WEAR A CONDOM, IF HE REFUSES...REFUSE TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM) and the future partner(s) (who will cherish and truly care for you) that you will undoubtedly have when you are finally able to walk away from him. Take care of yourself.

I'm in my early 30's and very new to masturbation (I use a mini vibrator). Infact the first orgasm I ever had was a couple months ago when I first began masturbating. What I am concerned about (and of course am too embarrassed to ask any of my female friends) is when I reach my climax I urinate a little bit, and sometimes if feels like a lot (I do empty my bladder before I begin). Is this normal? Am I doing something wrong? I'm not in a sexual relationship right now, but I definately don't want this to happen when I'm with a guy. Does this happen to other women? Any information people could give me would be greatly appreciated.