Lucian

Those are some awesome ideas haha, never would of thought of the brush. Thanks champ!

Yeah but theres only so many times you can do the same old things before they become redundant and boring..looking for creative ideads.

Probably should of made myself more clear...what we both want out of it is just to spice things up..use it to really tease so basically for foreplay. Nothing that dives deep into the pain side, spanking etc is ok. I was just wondering is there any certain way to progress to make the tease even more intense..instead of just jumping between random things e.g. going from feather to ice..then back to kissing. Thats what I meant by routine and if so some good ideas? Thanks again guys

Hey everyone..new to the scene here Anyway..so lately the gf has been expressing a great desire for bdsm and has kinda shocked me at how far she is willing to go.. but not a problem I can keep up. I have bought an under the bed restraint system, whips, blind folds the works...now obviously I know the general idea..tease..bring her to edge a few times, but what I wanted to know was...like the actual dominants in the porn movies..is there a routine? (start with feather end with whip) for example would you first use ice and then heat, is there any order at which you should progress? What are some other ideas, to realllyyy tease? Thanks in advance Lucian