My Girlfriend and I just recently had sex for the first time together and she said it was very uncomfortable. She said My penis was too thick. I am about average in lengthbut about 7.5 inches around. Are there any positions of lubricants that help with this. Also I cant find a condom that fits right. I have to use the magnum xls for the width, but im not 10 inches. I dont roll it down all the way, but it is annoying.