Hello to all. I just bought the Jeff Stryker 9 inch dong & the kong dong strap ons for my wife to use on me. I am blowing them on a Daily basis, & can get them pretty deep into my mouth and with the Stryker I can even feel it start to enter mt throat but it seems like I really have to push it so hard to get it there. Then my throat seems way to small for the toy? Will it stretch ok if I keep trying? Also the kong dong is wider than the Stryker I am scared I will hurt my throat if I keep using it , but do not want to stop trying. Will I be ok even though these toys are wider than a normal penis?