Hello there Newbie, The dreaded ED can strike at any age. Be it physical, psychological or a combination of both, it doesn't stop you from getting frustrated does it. I am presuming that your man wants to have sex with you. Purchase a hollow strap on for men. They come in a variety of sizes so you can select what suits YOUR needs best 6", 8" or a whacking great 10". -- They are available on through Too Timed. I am 65 and suffer the same problem as your man, but I can assure you that my wife doesn't go short in any department. Good luck and have fun.