Andrew63

ever watched your wife do it with another man or vise versa...or, for the women out there, do you want to have your man watch you with another man?

Guys will be hesitant to talk dirty if you are not specific about what you want to hear...they don't want to upset you in the middle of something! Write a letter or e-mail an example of what you like. Some girls just want to be complimented on their anatomy, sometimes in 'crude' terms...after all, that's what 'dirty' is all about...but some girls want to fantasize or role play about being used and 'abused'. They might like a light slap {perhaps even heavy} on the ass or breasts as their lover penetrates them and calls them a whore and a slut...then proceeds to tell them what he is going to do to them. There are all levels of 'dirty' and the mood for them may change depending on what day it is. Have a signal for your lover to know that you want it 'dirty' vs you want to 'make love'. Guys are particularly subliminally in tune to the noises that girls make when they are having sex....the facial expression is equally important....most guys won't tell you that or are not even aware of the effect unless you happen to turn off the volume or go comatose...so keep that in mind.