To start let me just say thanks to all who actually read this. To tell you a bit about me... I am a bigger girl in a relationship with a man who is about the same size as I am. Sex isn't the easiest thing in the world, unfortunately, but we are working on it. I have always been the kinkier type and he is much more conservative. Though recently he was willing to try using a vibrator, which we both enjoyed and one time he even was willing to tie me up...so hot! However being tied up is not an every time thing for him. Only special occasions. For me, I love being restricted and letting him be in control. The other day he mentioned maybe some new fun, but that's as much detail as he gave. I want to get some things that would be fun for him, but not too crazy where it would freak him out. This is where I need some help. Anyone have any suggestions as to what kind of toys or things might be good to surprise him with? Or maybe even some ideas to try to help spice things up and make sex better? We are both real passionate and the majority of our naked time is spent on foreplay and teasing. I want to be able to make him happy. What should I do? Thanks in advance for all of your help! Hope your day is going well!
