princesspissant

So last night at work the conversation turned to sex (as it always seems too ) and I brought up the subject of anal sex. I was surprised that a couple of people admitted to trying it and enjoying it. The majority were disgusted. Who cares though. They don't know what they are missing.

I joined this site just after my first experience with anal sex. I was looking for other people who didn't really think that I was strange. I guess i just want to know why most women have a problem with it. I can't talk to anyone about it, because it is looked down upon in my social circle. I just feel like all of these other women are missing out. Any thoughts?

First you need to consider some mental barriers that you might be putting up, like for instance, are you afraid that you might get pregnant? There are also deep seated issues with people who were brought up with the conception that sex is bad and you shouldn't enjoy it. You also need to examine the possiblility that you are just not attracted to your husband anymore. There are lots of things that it could be.

The key to it not hurting. Lots of Lube and being relaxed. If you can manage it can intinsify your orgasmic experience.

I would be honest with him. What is the worst that could happen? Five months is long enough that he should be willing to at least try things your way.