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On 6/8/2008 at 8:34 AM, Deano69 said:
After having sex do you go down and clean up the mess, I have thought about it but have not done it, does anyone out there have a response to this, is it ok or gross
def not to clean up the mess, just to give more pleasure. some guys have an aversion to this..but from a woman's perspective....YES!
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21 hours ago, prodrag33 said:
so does this mean size matters?
In my ever so humble opinion, it does not matter. I truly do not want a huge dick pounding me. I enjoy penetration, but that is not what sends me to the outer limits. I suppose if a guy has a micro penis that could be problematic, nothing he can do other than surgery. That is something he must decide.
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On 12/16/2008 at 1:57 AM, mannu said:
Hi,
Can any one tell me about the normal size of Penis.
Thanks
www[dot]viagrabulk[dot]com
I hope you are not another young man agonizing over penis size. If you learn what your woman likes and provides you are good to go. foreplay is essential. If I had to choose penetration or oral, oral would win hands down. I know some guys don't get this but if they took the time to read about how women are wired and what makes them tick, they'd get it
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On 12/16/2008 at 1:57 AM, mannu said:
Hi,
Can any one tell me about the normal size of Penis.
Thanks
www[dot]viagrabulk[dot]com
I hope you are not another young man agonizing over penis size. If you learn what your woman likes and provides you are good to go. foreplay is essential. If I had to choose penetration or oral, oral would win hands down. I know some guys don't get this but if they took the time to read about how women are wired and what makes them tick, they'd get it
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reading some older posts and this WAS entertaining. Now...especially for the ladies. Flatulence .. my worst nightmare came true. Thank God his face wasn't down there! I was mortified, tried my darndest to make light of it but it was a deal breaker (he said a boner breaker) that night. Told him he needed an anatomy lesson...he just stirred things up...dang. I have a good supply of Gas X on hand at ALL times. Having had a resection a number of years ago has left me with more than normal gas....just what I need to worry about during those moments. Anyone else had a similar experience and how did you handle it?
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On 10/3/2012 at 6:51 PM, bbarney said:
Squirting is something i still really want to make her do. Ive gotten her real real wet, but i dont think it was squirting wet. I am definitely going to keep trying though =).
not sure you can 'make her' squirt. like an orgasm, squirting is a release she has to be emotionally ready for. For some, orgasms just happen, for others..like myself I have to be relaxed and give myself permission. I think it would make worlds of difference if he would give me, not permission, but encouragement. Squirting takes it all to the next level. From the posts I've read of yours, you are leaps and bounds ahead of most.
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didn't think that one through...actually didn't occur to me (I don't get out much Tyger
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it has taken me awhile to admit this...that he is selfish. I told him he was...now getting the silent treatment. better the silent treatment than blue balls (I do wish they'd attach a name to this for women)
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On 1/18/2016 at 1:14 PM, Tyger said:
So, cuckholding is a husband that is with an adulterous wife. In evolutionary biology, the term is also applied to males who are unwittingly investing parental effort in offspring that are not genetically their own.
So, has any man on here stayed with his wife after she had an affair and found that the affair was beneficial?
you lost me on males who are unwittingly investing parental effort in offspring that are not genetically their own. such as in step-children?
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On 3/5/2009 at 0:11 AM, Grumpy Bear said:
Suzy,
My post was meant to be kinda tongue in cheek ~ should have thrown in a couple smileys.....
From the guys side of the of the aisle.... I have to say that most of the guys that I've ever heard worrying about being "big enough" have no clue about how to treat a woman.... They are either very inexperienced (and thus just need to be enlightened), or their idea of foreplay is a slap on the ass, a boob grab, and maybe a couple minutes of hand action.. giving oral is not an option (but they sure expect to recieve it). They might just qualify for the status of "minute man" - you know, climb on and hump furiously for about a minute and then ask if it was good for you. Later they can be heard bragging to their buddies at the bar that "they pounded the shit outa that last week"...... or "I tore her up"..... Or worse... "she's lousey, just lays there... " Never realizing that they were done and gone before you even got started.
I was that guy once - long long ago, but that was back when some guy named Regan was in the middle of his first term as President.....
sooooo, when did the lightbulb go on for you? I've had a conundrum...would pm you if you are willing...could use input
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On 1/8/2010 at 10:52 PM, harmanwk said:
MsLayD,
I am not sure of any underlying reasons why she doesn't want toys. She is rather conservative sexually, not that advenurous in bed. Sometimes I can get her to try a new position. Sometimes she likes it, sometimes not. Regardless our main staple position is the missionary. To give you an idea I don't think she has ever given herself an orgasm. None the less, I still love her.
I do know she is not exactly following the advice my grandmother gave her before we got married. My grandmother told my wife (and my sister-in-law) "If you want to make your husband happy then you need to be a lady in public and act like a whore in bed." This surprised my wife coming from my conservative grandmother. Well me too a little when my wife told me what she said, but my grandmother was always rather independent so it shouldn't surprise me.
your grandmother was/is a wise woman
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On 12/22/2007 at 7:44 PM, Mikayla1 said:
Hmmmm....that seems like a VERY long time to me! I can not always cum at the drop of a hat (or the lick of a tongue) but normally within 5-10 minutes at the LONGEST I start orgasming. I have always been this way - and albeit it takes slightly longer now than it did the first few years, but still, I can't imagine a 30 minute session withough an orgasm.
I am not saying that there is ANYTHING at all "wrong" with you, but in my opinion, that seem long? Does he use his fingers? Stimulate your clit and suck, lick, blow, bite...you know, mix it up? In my experience, that helps!
responding to an older post here. Mixing it up for me makes me lose it. Once he's found the right touch and the right spot it just keeps building. If he changes, speed or flicking I can feel it go away. And yes, it very well may take 30 minutes or more. I've told him if I get quiet then he'd best go back to where he was when I was moaning and squirming. I've read some men think women are faking the vocals and some women may, not I. If I am quiet something isn't working.
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On 9/14/2012 at 11:05 PM, Kama said:
Thanks, bbarney. Well, I have to realize that the men that find me weird or tell me that I should conform to a certain expectation have issues themselves. I did recently find a man that feels that many women do enjoy giving oral, and doesn't complain that I enjoy it either.
Nice to see that other women feel the same way! It's a myth that women only do oral to please the man..I get tremendous satisfaction out of it.
I get satisfaction from knowing it is bringing him pleasure. Does it make me hot? no, but I love doing it. He doesn't get this.
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On 9/15/2015 at 9:35 PM, WenWitch said:
69 is difficult for me because I'm totally concentrating on l8tniter and not myself.
thank you Wen...was beginning to think I was the only one who isn't crazy about 69ing. kinda can't walk and chew gum at the same time.
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On 6/18/2012 at 1:35 PM, Sunday said:
I really enjoy giving. Receiving is OK, especially at first. I think guys (or at least this guy) need a constant increase in the level of stimulation for their bodies to remain interested. Laying back and enjoying her being in control, licking and giving oral attention are exciting and great fun for the first few minutes, but my penis tends to lose interest after the a while and I need more to keep it up. I begin to get a little bit aggressive and before you know it I'm in control and I'm fucking her mouth. Fortunately she enjoys it. When I'm doing her it seems like she can lay back and let me do whatever all night and her excitement just gets greater and greater. She has some amazing orgasms that last and last. I'm jealous.
once....just once....what is enjoyable about gagging, I love giving head but getting f'd in the mouth is a bit much. I just couldn't get a handle on the thrusts AND I used chloraseptic for the next 2 days...no, not so enjoyable for this ol gal
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6 minutes ago, deborah126 said:
lucky you! I have to find a way to get him to just stop doing this. arrgggg
and I am open to suggestions on how to approach this
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lucky you! I have to find a way to get him to just stop doing this. arrgggg
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It is hard for me to comprehend when guys finish they are just totally done, even if their woman hasn't finished. I hear repeatedly that guys are just spent...no more to go, but...how can they just leave their woman hanging????
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kuddos to you! we use a warming lube..but, I never get dry while he's there working it Just like the Motin Lotion because of it's warming affects...hightens the sensations. Squirting may take some time...and then again it may happen when you least expect it. Don't make goals like that, just help her relax and do what you do. You should be able to tell how she is responding. I tell my guy if I get quiet something has changed and it isn't working. You may want to spend some time stimulating her G spot before going down on her....give that some time as well. Women aren't wired like men...we take time and and a lot of foreplay before going to the serious stuff. I speak for myself...maybe not all women. A while back he was giving me some incredible oral and decided to try a vibe to hit the G spot....killed it. absolutely killed it. sometimes we think somethng will be a bonus and it backfires. check with her before introducing something different if things seem to be going in the right direction.
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For the guys. I am curious, reading the above comments and having had my own requests for lingerie, a dance...etc, what do you guys do for your women?
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It is crazy what different people see as sexy. I threw on a short nitie one night and he absolutely love it...requested it. Now, I would never think of that as sexy. The one I like, he never comments on...go figure. I did pick up some lingerie and much to my dismay without altering it a bit it just isn't going to work...ya need boobs. So, that has stayed in the closet :/
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We've talked about Women kissing their Man after he performs oral on her but, I can't recall discussing the reverse. So Men are you adverse to kissing your Lady after you cum in her mouth or not? Ladies feel free to comment on if your man is fine with it or finds it disgusting.
I have no problem kissing after he has given me oral however, he has a problem going down on me after he's cum in me. whap
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Well...multiple orgasms happen quite quick for me...And if I try to prolong one then I don't usually release before edging 2/3 times.
feeling rather crappy about now....still trying to get 1! never heard of edging before...I only wish
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This toy, made by NSNovelties, was one that, upon seeing on the site, I just HAD to try! It's an Oral Stimulator, so it's not made just for the clit, but it can stimulate licking in other places as well. I'm always kind of wary when trying a new sex toy brand, however, I can honestly say that NSNovelties is a winner in my selective book!
This item seems like it has the best of almost all sex toy worlds! It's a soft, silky 4" worth of silicone, which makes it antibacterial, and pleasing to the touch. The base is a hard plastic, with 2 buttons. One turns it on/off, and the other controls the vibes and functions (10 in all). The total length is about 7" long. It is RECHARGABLE!! Wait, what??? Yes!! It's rechargable! It comes with a USB cord (but no plug). And it's a specialty plug into the toy, so be sure to keep track of it!! It's shaped like an extremely long tongue, with the tip flicked up, and the middle of it kind of scooped, which makes it, in my opinion, perfectly shaped for all sorts of pleasure.
The box it came in is very simple, with a picture of it as its actual size on one side, and a clear window on the other. It's a sturdy box, and very simple and classy. It does say this toy is "splash-proof", so where you can probably use it in the shower, do not immerse this toy in water, probably due to the plug in port on the bottom of the toy. Either way, I'd stay away from water with it, to be on the safe side.
Seeing this toy in person definitely confirmed my desire to try this purple and white silicone beauty as well deserved!
I used my cell phone plug to start charging my purple tongue toy. I let it charge for about 5 hours before using it. There were no directions, telling me how long to charge it though. So, this was a guess. I'd recommend charging it for at least 12 hours for the first charging. The 5 seemed to do just fine for the short time I used it, but afterwards, it was very weak. My second time charging it, I charged it over 12 hours, and that worked very well.
The first usage, I used it on myself. I used the toy to "lick" my nipples, and then all the way down to my snatch. I used the 3 setting, which is a very strong steady vibe. I love strong vibes, and this was perfect for me.
I "licked" my pussy lips, then started stroking up and down, slowly teasing my clit, then going back down to my lips again. After several minutes of teasing and "licking", and moving the vibe in various ways, I settled my "tongue" to the side, and used it to flick my clit, pressing it into my clit as I did so. Sideways gave my clit the direct stimulation she craves, and I flicked myself to a very strong orgasm!
The second usage, I used it on my girlfriend. She and I have similar wants when it comes to clit stimulations. I slowly teased her just like I did myself. She's also starting to want to try sex toys more and more, so I told her to take the vibrator, and play with herself. I watched as she teased herself, just like I had done to myself and to her. Then, she too put the toy where the tongue was on its side, and she pressed it into her clit. Soon, she was cumming very hard as well. She used it a couple of times on herself that night. During our snuggle time, she told me that I had to give this toy a very, very good review. This toy, so far, is her favorite we've used!!
Ladies, do we not LOVE clit stimulations? I mean, you get a tongue down there, that knows what it's doing, and it can literally shoot us to the orgasm moon!
I recommend that you get this toy Lickety Split!!! I give it my highest rating of 4 Tyger Paws WAAAAY up, a poofy tail, claws out, and a satisfying purr!!!!
Lickety Split: http://www.tootimid.com/Lickety-Split-Caress-High-Intensity-Stimulator-8246.html
that is some jingle...i am weary of spending a lot on toys. I already have 3 that do nothing...sit in a box. 2 malfunctioned soon after I got them. uggg. one has been replaced but it doesn't matter cause it doesn't do anything for me
I currently have 2 that are my favs.
I was that guy once - long long ago, but that was back when some guy named Regan was in the middle of his first term as President.....
I currently have 2 that are my favs.
My "song To Get It On"
in Everything Else
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love this song...have it on my "special" playlist. i don't find music distracting, for me it enhances the atmosphere