deborah126

love this song...have it on my "special" playlist. i don't find music distracting, for me it enhances the atmosphere

def not to clean up the mess, just to give more pleasure. some guys have an aversion to this..but from a woman's perspective....YES!

In my ever so humble opinion, it does not matter. I truly do not want a huge dick pounding me. I enjoy penetration, but that is not what sends me to the outer limits. I suppose if a guy has a micro penis that could be problematic, nothing he can do other than surgery. That is something he must decide.

I hope you are not another young man agonizing over penis size. If you learn what your woman likes and provides you are good to go. foreplay is essential. If I had to choose penetration or oral, oral would win hands down. I know some guys don't get this but if they took the time to read about how women are wired and what makes them tick, they'd get it

I hope you are not another young man agonizing over penis size. If you learn what your woman likes and provides you are good to go. foreplay is essential. If I had to choose penetration or oral, oral would win hands down. I know some guys don't get this but if they took the time to read about how women are wired and what makes them tick, they'd get it

reading some older posts and this WAS entertaining. Now...especially for the ladies. Flatulence .. my worst nightmare came true. Thank God his face wasn't down there! I was mortified, tried my darndest to make light of it but it was a deal breaker (he said a boner breaker) that night. Told him he needed an anatomy lesson...he just stirred things up...dang. I have a good supply of Gas X on hand at ALL times. Having had a resection a number of years ago has left me with more than normal gas....just what I need to worry about during those moments. Anyone else had a similar experience and how did you handle it?

not sure you can 'make her' squirt. like an orgasm, squirting is a release she has to be emotionally ready for. For some, orgasms just happen, for others..like myself I have to be relaxed and give myself permission. I think it would make worlds of difference if he would give me, not permission, but encouragement. Squirting takes it all to the next level. From the posts I've read of yours, you are leaps and bounds ahead of most.

didn't think that one through...actually didn't occur to me (I don't get out much Tyger )

it has taken me awhile to admit this...that he is selfish. I told him he was...now getting the silent treatment. better the silent treatment than blue balls (I do wish they'd attach a name to this for women)

you lost me on males who are unwittingly investing parental effort in offspring that are not genetically their own. such as in step-children?

sooooo, when did the lightbulb go on for you? I've had a conundrum...would pm you if you are willing...could use input

your grandmother was/is a wise woman

responding to an older post here. Mixing it up for me makes me lose it. Once he's found the right touch and the right spot it just keeps building. If he changes, speed or flicking I can feel it go away. And yes, it very well may take 30 minutes or more. I've told him if I get quiet then he'd best go back to where he was when I was moaning and squirming. I've read some men think women are faking the vocals and some women may, not I. If I am quiet something isn't working.

I get satisfaction from knowing it is bringing him pleasure. Does it make me hot? no, but I love doing it. He doesn't get this.

thank you Wen...was beginning to think I was the only one who isn't crazy about 69ing. kinda can't walk and chew gum at the same time.

once....just once....what is enjoyable about gagging, I love giving head but getting f'd in the mouth is a bit much. I just couldn't get a handle on the thrusts AND I used chloraseptic for the next 2 days...no, not so enjoyable for this ol gal

and I am open to suggestions on how to approach this

lucky you! I have to find a way to get him to just stop doing this. arrgggg

It is hard for me to comprehend when guys finish they are just totally done, even if their woman hasn't finished. I hear repeatedly that guys are just spent...no more to go, but...how can they just leave their woman hanging????

kuddos to you! we use a warming lube..but, I never get dry while he's there working it Just like the Motin Lotion because of it's warming affects...hightens the sensations. Squirting may take some time...and then again it may happen when you least expect it. Don't make goals like that, just help her relax and do what you do. You should be able to tell how she is responding. I tell my guy if I get quiet something has changed and it isn't working. You may want to spend some time stimulating her G spot before going down on her....give that some time as well. Women aren't wired like men...we take time and and a lot of foreplay before going to the serious stuff. I speak for myself...maybe not all women. A while back he was giving me some incredible oral and decided to try a vibe to hit the G spot....killed it. absolutely killed it. sometimes we think somethng will be a bonus and it backfires. check with her before introducing something different if things seem to be going in the right direction. '

For the guys. I am curious, reading the above comments and having had my own requests for lingerie, a dance...etc, what do you guys do for your women?

It is crazy what different people see as sexy. I threw on a short nitie one night and he absolutely love it...requested it. Now, I would never think of that as sexy. The one I like, he never comments on...go figure. I did pick up some lingerie and much to my dismay without altering it a bit it just isn't going to work...ya need boobs. So, that has stayed in the closet :/

I have no problem kissing after he has given me oral however, he has a problem going down on me after he's cum in me. whap

feeling rather crappy about now....still trying to get 1! never heard of edging before...I only wish

that is some jingle...i am weary of spending a lot on toys. I already have 3 that do nothing...sit in a box. 2 malfunctioned soon after I got them. uggg. one has been replaced but it doesn't matter cause it doesn't do anything for me I currently have 2 that are my favs.