I'm 18 and I get no pleasure from sex.. me and my husband have been married for a year. I don't even get turned on.. I love him and having sex with him but i have only had one orgasm and that was with a vibrater... Its sort of like im not sensative anymore we have talked about it and tried many things.. he feels like its his fault and i'm scared that i can't have them and something is wrong with me.. please help give me clues on what to try.. We were both virgins and unexperianced when we got married too...