Hi. My girlfriend and I have been dating for about a year. We haven't really had much sex. In the beginning it was because she was having self esteem issues. She also has PCOS(which in some cases effects the sex hormons). It has been about 2 months since we've had sex. I go down on her all the time but she has yet to go down on me. I don't pressure her to do it, it's not everyone's thing. What is getting to me is that she has said numerous times that when we have sex, it's like she's having sex with herself. I've tried to be dominate with her but we both can't take it seriously. I love her dearly but I want her to have sex with me. Any suggestions?
