mixbabe13

I just wanted to thank everyone for all of their advice. I'm gonna try the "talk" this weekend. Wish me luck!!!

I know how to make myself orgasm, but the only way I do is with my vibrator. I know for myself that if i put in on the highest power on my clit that I will orgasm alost immediately. He knows this too and he tries to stimulate my clit, but it's never as effective as my vibrator, no guy has ever been. I want to talk to him and tell him that i'm not finding sex exciting I just really don't want him to feel bad and then pull away from me. All of the things you said to say sound great and I'm sure once we're in the conversation it'll be easier, I just don't know how to start the convo. Like I can't just sit down with and straight out say "I don't enjoy having sex with you".

We don't really ever experiment with different positions, we stick to a basic four positions, but he's really into sensual passionate sex so he loves to take things slow where i might like to be a little freakier. I've tried to have him talk to me during it but that even freaks him out, so I'm afraid to try to tell him to do anything else. Also I've never orgasmed at all with any guy, and he knows this. He's tried many times to get me to, and I know he feels bad because he can't, so he's kinda stopped trying because we both kind of know its a lost cause. I'm just afraid that if I sit him down and tell him that I'm not enjoying sex that it'll hurt his pride and his feelings and I don't want to do that. Is there a way I can say that without it souding negative??

I've been dating my boyfried for almost a year now. I'm very much in love with him, and our relationship is going great. The only thing is I don't seem to be finding sex plesurable anymore. I mean I'm only 20yrs old, and it does feel good, its just I never have the desire to have sex with him anymore?? Is something wrong with me?? Is this an indication that something is going wrong in our relationship?? I haven't told him yet because I don't want to hurt his feelings, but I'm constantly trying to avoid sex and I think he's starting to notice. Someone help me PLEASEEE

Hey everyone, This is a really embarassing and weirdc question. But I'm a virgin, and I was wondering what you guys thought about anal sex. Whether you thought it would count as losing you rvirginity or what not. I know its ultimately my decision but I wanted to know your opinion. Also I wanted to know whatto expect if I were to go through with it Thanks

I'm thinking about purchasing a vibrator for the first time, and I was wondering if anyone knew of what would be a good one (a.k.a most stimulating) for a first timer

Whenever my boyfriend goes down on me or fingers me, it feels good, but I can never orgasm. Is there anything I can do to help myself orgasm while he's down there?!?!?!??

I just started dating this guy, and I started giving him blow jobs. He was the first guy I've ever given a blow job too. He's had a lot of girls give him bjs so I just don't know if he enjoys when I do it. Is there any way if I can tell if he finds me amazing at it or just boring??????