I think it's no different than preferences with breasts, or balls, or saggy or dangle....or other "parts".
Some like big ones, and other like small ones!
Some like 'em long and saggy, and some do not.
And, you have to play with what each other has got!!
Also, it's got to be a rush, and equally a rush, if your bride reaches down and spreads her lips open, and says "eat me!".....big ones, or small ones....