I always use with my girl various sex toys during sex.
The last time we used a VR device to watch a VR live cam girl. It was always a fantasy to have a threesome so we tried this for the first time with our dildo. It was great fun and I had an incredible jerk off.
So I can advice using sex toys because it always spices up the sex life. It makes so much fun to try something new and I thnik the worst think for a partnership is a boring sex life.