Andrew

First off, I'm glad you opened up to her about a lot of your likes and desires. Dressing up in women's clothing is very liberating. I love to wear women's lingerie. I haven't told my wife I like to wear that stuff yet. I wear it when she's not around. Secondly, you may have asked for too much at once, but I understand a lot of what your saying. There are times in my relationship, in the bedroom of course, where I want my wife to be the man and me the woman. We grew up in more conservative, religious environments, so there is hesitation about opening up to her for me. You've taken more courageous steps than I have. You've opened up about a lot of stuff with her. I admire your courage for opening up to her. The only thing I can tell you is continue to be honest with your wife. See if there any preconceived thoughts she has about men and if anything you want is going against that. Also be patient. That's about the best I can do for advice. I hope she grants your wish. Have a good one and good luck.

Gay Porn is where the best looking men are. I love porn, it don't matter if it's a man and woman, woman and woman or man and man. The women seem to look best in lesbian porn and the men are super fine in gay porn. It's never made me take attention away from my wife. It's not cheating if your spouse is coming first. It is if your spouse is last and the porn is first.

There's nothing wrong with enjoying the attention as he doesn't cross the line. There's nothing wrong with being appreciated and other people noticing what makes you special. Always remember the loving spouse at the house and if that other man gets fresh let him know you're married.

The chance hasn't presented itself.

I was thinking that as well. What's the old saying, "Practice makes perfect"

Thanks a bunch.

My wife and I went through a period where we went without sex for a few months but here in the lately we've gradually getting back into the game. Yesterday, I had sex with my wife on the coach and it felt good but I was done in less than five minutes. Later in the evening, we went for round two on the couch. My endurance was better but my arms got tired and I didn't finish. I don't exercise as much as I should. We do have sex in the bed and other places in the house. Would doing more exercising help and what do y'all suggest otherwise?

I'll get up the courage to ask her. I used to be freaked out and deny when I noticed a guy looked good or when I tried on any type of feminine clothing. Now, I'm starting to come to terms with my straight woman side and I love it. I'm not planning on leaving my wife or doing anything with anyone else behind her back but I've learned how to except aspects about myself and like it. When I saw the post that started this thread, I could relate. I hope he gets what he dreams about. I'm cheering for him.

I'm a man and dream about being a woman all the time, and I dream about being the girlfriend and housewife to a hot guy. I love to wear women's lingerie, pantyhose, bras, panties, etc. I dream about being made love to a regular basis by my dream man. Sometimes, he comes to the bedroom ready to take charge and show who the boss is. Sometimes, I'll be tied to the bed as slides his dick in my mouth gently face fucks me until he shoots that salty, warm but tasty man juice down my throat. Other times in my fantasy I'm in a french maid outfit and he smacks me on the ass to my delight and says bend over and take it all you dirty girl. I gleefully obey. Other times in my dreams, I have the house cleaned for him and he comes after a hard day's night at work. I immediately start kissing him and going down on him and then he fucks me on the floor like a champ. In my dreams and give my man head quite regularly. I'm the best woman a man can have. While I dream about all of this, I'm married to a woman. I grew up in a more religious background so this side has been repressed. I think what would make me happy is if I could tell my wife to be the man every now while I be the woman. I would love her to fuck me with a strap on. If I ever got divorced I would pursue my fantasy. My wife grew up in the same religious background so something like this would be difficult to share. It's one day at a time for me. I love my fantasies and we all have them. It's what makes us human.

Impressive.

I've spent a lot of my life trying to deny the fact that I think men are hot. I've always thought and still do think women are hot, but I was raised that men don't look at other men that way. I've finally come to except the fact that I feel that great looking muscular men are very hot and very sexy. Now without shame I have to say, he is soooooooooooo fucking fine. He makes my knees knock and my body tremble.

I know I"m not a woman, but is there a required set time for foreplay and getting the woman ready for orgasm. I try to get my woman primed for orgasm during foreplay. Sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn't. If it's been a while between sex episodes, I'm not exactly the iron man. Is it better to get her to orgasm before I go in for the pounding?

Ooooooooohhhhhhhhh yessssssssssssss! That's what I'm talking about.

I like it when my wife shaves it also.

I hope things get better for you as far as getting things worked out. I wish I had some magic words for you. Good luck with everything.

I imagine what you have is enough to last a lifetime.

I love your posts. Fantasies are awesome and you can find yourself wondering what would happen if they did come true. They are strong. I'm learning as beautiful as our fantasies are we still need to continue to keep things into perspective. We just got to continue to make our real life the best we can make it, but there's nothing wrong with fantasies. They're all a part of who we are.

These past few months have been crazy in my head and my heart. My sexuality is something I have no I idea what to make of. I love my wife and we've known each other for a very long time, since grade school. I've found myself attracted to girls and women. Over time my journey on the complicated road known as sexuality has been a real trip, I watched my first porno when I was a teenager and really watched more when I was in college. I started out looking at the ladies and their great assess, big tits and loved watching them suck cock and that sort of thing. Visualizing a gorgeous woman working on your member is always a great thing. Little by little as I got a little older I started noticing some things. All of a sudden when I watched an adult movie it was something about hearing the man moan, looking at him and his huge cock that was starting to get me turned on. From time to time, when I would watch a straight porno, instead of visualizing me getting a BJ from the woman, I started picturing myself giving the BJ to the man. Later, I looked at a magazine photo spread in cosmo that featured good looking young guys titled Naked Chefs, I was like 'Hell to the yeah.' Eventually, I would throw the magazines away, probably shame because I wasn't supposed to think that. I still found woman appealing and I didn't think much of it. A few years later, one day I went into an adult shop and noticed a pack of gay man magazines with a DVD. The men on the covers, I have to be honest, were really hot and sexy looking. I broke down and bought the pack. All the men in the magazines were muscular and hung and I loved it. Also in the movie, some scenes featured men that weren't good looking and that didn't turn me on but others featured great looking men and it turned me on so much. I would throw it away I guess because of shame and trying to not admit anything to myself. I was and still am attracted to women but I noticed from time to time I am attracted to men in the physical form. I have also tried on women's clothes from time to time in the past but not often. Here in the last couple of years, particularly the last few months, my mind has gone haywire. I have intense fantasies about men as I've said in another post. I've also tried on my lingerie lately. The lingerie makes me feel comfortable and liberated. This whole other side comes out which I refer to as a girly, girl feminine side. That side of me also fuels those intense fantasies about men where I'm the woman and I love it. I love going down on my wife and eating her pussy, but I also love the idea of a hot looking guy's balls in my mouth with his dick on my face. I'm revived up about blowjob fantasies where my face is covered with that man juice after I made him cum from giving suck his cock. I used to be ashamed of my other side, but I have to admit I love my other side. I love the idea of one day having lots of gowns and pantyhose for me to wear and feel sexy in. In the past, I've enjoyed going to strip clubs with women taking their clothes off. Now, going to a male strip club is on my bucket list. I want to have a muscular, Greek God like figure grind up on me. Nobody I know knows this. My wife and I grew up in an environment where this stuff is considered taboo or wrong. When I wear lingerie or look at anything with naked men, my wife's at work. I want to be honest with her and make our relationship work, but I know there's a time when we all have to come to terms with our full true self. I've called myself anywhere between bisexual, demisexual, biromantic and even genderfluid. But really in short, I have to call my sexuality zigzag. I hope I can get mind settled down and on track.

Posting on here allows me to open up in a way I can't with anyone else. The greatest part is no judging at all. It's healthy. I made a post here recently that led to a very great conversation. I love this site and the chance it gives us to open up. As far as deleted posts, it's hard to say why someone deleted their post. Everyone has their own reason.

Awesome.

I've discovered my sexuality going in all different directions lately. I have a man side that loves women and a female side that loves men. All I can say is take everything one day at a time and enjoy the things you like that she does for you. If she loves you she'll stick with you and except you for you.

I would love to be the bad girl being sent to the principal's office with him as the principal ready to punish me in his own special way. What a fine man and what a delicious looking body. Yum Yum.

It's cool. We all have our fantasies and secret desires. It makes us human.

This is why I'm bisexual right here. Hell to the yeah!

Girlcrush, thanks for your time, concern and interest. This helps me get things together and put things into perspective.