How would you go about finding someone you could trust? We have talked about this and my hubby would love to do this, and I have to say I think about it too. But the thing that always stops me is, how to find someone clean, someone you can trust and really if I did it I just think I wouldnt want them to be able to contact me- almost like a one nighter. I told my hubby we should just do it in vegas, go there find a women, get crazy and nobody would ever find out. I do love the thought of it, its a turn on. sasha