Hi Mary I am in my early forties and my wife in early thirties. I enjoy porn pics, books and movies very much. My wife desn't like pics or books at all. I tried to expose her to books but she definitely hates books and pics. On a haunch i showed her a BF which she enjoyed very much. In fact, we pep up our sex by watching BF once a month. We also emulate the scenes like you. But the hangups about pics and books are still there.