Im very lucky to be married to a woman who also loves women as much as i do. In our relationship we have our rules which are so easy to follow. 1. We both have to be attracted to the female we are inviting into our playtime. 2. We dont play without each other, we both have to be involved or its a no go. 3. Relationships are not made with said female, when the playtime is over she goes her separate way. 4. No other guys period and my wife is very ok with this rule, she is the one that is Bi i am straight. 5. i must wear protection, i do not want to bring any stds to my wife and family. 6. No drugs, no drama period. All this works out perfect, there is never a need or want to cheat because whenever we feel the need to have someone we just find someone together. Ive been head over heals in love with my wife for the last 10 years and i grow more in love with her each day and i never once thought about cheating on her and for the first time in my life i feel i can totally trust the person i married.....shes even 9 years younger than i am and more mature than anyone i have ever met. Im also a Boudoir Photographer and she loves to help me with my shoots because she loves being part of the beautiful creative process. All that being said we dont have threesomes all the time...in 10 years we have had a threesome once, we dont actively seek it out because its not needed, we love each other and we are each others favorite person ever. We do love to check out other women in public together though, we will go out to eat and my wife will tap me on the shoulder to look at some other woman walking by and whatnot. I have the best wife and would never want another and would never jeapardise what we have. Also its not an easy thing to just find a woman to have a threesome with its actually very difficult. Our first and only encounter was also amazing, we got very lucky and had a very beautiful red headed girl with green eyes meet us for drinks so we could get to know each other a little and then we went to our home and played all night....i loved seeing my wife play with another woman and was so happy that she was able to have that. We talk about finding another woman again a lot but we are of a mind that if it happens it happens if it dont it dont, it will someday were sure. Anyway......thats our little story.