hummingbird53

I have never had one, but my husband has cheated on me three or four times with someone he picked up at a bar and had a one night stand with. This in the wrong type of relationship can cause much damage to the other person, when as these things seem to came to light about his one nighters. Ive had 2 stds because of 2 sluts and a husband who cant hold his beer and can charm the ladies without even trying. He had to tell me about those 2, but the others where so obveous, he says Im going to the store, will be right back. Hes gone till 1pm the next day with a excuse that he went for a drive. I asked him where a drive that long went and he dident have a answer. Really funny tho, he got home after check out time at a hotel or motel would be. Also had one slut call and wish him a merry christmas. She told me to let him know so and so called and left him a message. Boy did I ever give it to him.His last one was in 1999 at christmas time. He had to tell me about that one because he gave me a std he got the 22nd of nov. I dont really trust him, I sometimes just wish I would back up and leave but I am unable to do so. SOOOOOOO .One night stands arnt always fun for the other person or people that might not know a thing about it until much later. This kind of thing in a long term relationship (35 years) can cause much damage. I wonder if the sluts that let a married man pick them up think about the pain and damage that a one night stand with a married man can do. And come on girls there are easy ways to tell if a guy is married or not. What I really think is they dont care onebitt if the guys married and has 3 small kids and a wife that does every thing sexualy that he wants but one thing, be another women for one night. I think men who are married and have one nighters ar scum, and the women who have it with them not caring or looking only out for what ever she can get are whores, cunts,sluts,and bitches of the most damaging kind. I Wish one time I could catch this happening( Im sure it will happen again) and rain down all hell one the both of them. Him for picking up a slut and rearange her face so she looks alittle different then when he picked her up. Thanks for letting me vent my anger and hurt and mistrust of a person who promised never to hurt me. If things wher different Id have been gone after number 2. Alot of people count on me here and I I havent figured out a way to just throw responsibility to the wind and leave. Also Id have to rob a bank because Im on ssi and dont have the funds to live on my own. thanks again for letting me vent.