Hi, I'm sure you will get many suggestions. Over all I would say try them all staring at the top and work your way down. To me, the important thing is that you approach this together knowing that you plan to try new things. Make it ok to say or admit that something does not work for you. It will be fun to look back at all the things you tried that just seemed weird when you find those news things that you both love. Then entire journey is foreplay have fun with it. I was afraid, maybe still am, to try new things because I felt it was too much for her. Problem is was I assumed and never talked about it with her. I assumed she would be think less of me. I'm slowly finding out that I'm the one that isn't as open minding because I would not talk to her. So, get it out there, do some anal, try some body paint maybe fuck in the truck of the car or your neighbors car. The fun is in the trying. By the way, for quick something you can do right away. Just say something provocative in his ear that you have NEVER said before. Make it rauncy and keep it up while your in bed. The limits only stop with your imagination and it's free. Talk dirty to him, very dirty, very very dirty. It always gets me hot.