Hot married life

Thanks for the encouragement. I would definitely say I am overcoming my nerves.

A side note. Bath and body works always takes away the best scents. I have no idea why?

It is intriguing without a doubt.

Someone is confident for sure.

There's a thought. Something to write about. Lol. No sir, not yet. He came home early last night, but I wanted him not a toy. Maybe that little experiment will be this week.

Right it is because when you see girl on girl you know that they know what they are doing. Not all guys can please a woman orally and some guys think they know and aren't willing to learn. Not Hammer, he does just fine. Also honestly unless I'm talking about hammer, I just don't think dick holds the same appeal aesthetically as a woman's body.

My husband has always been super attentive to my needs. Both emotionally and physically. I have to be emotionally connected before I am physically turned on. He has always been willing to put in the effort. I respond favorably to that. I also need reassurance that he finds me desirable because I tend to doubt that I am. Self esteem issues I guess. Still it ebbs and flows sometimes as we have went through different stages in life and marriage. Have you asked why she isn't as outgoing as she used to be? Maybe she will tell you what she really wants if she thinks you want to know. But since I don't have a clue about y'all just take all that with a grain of salt. 🤔 Also I turned 40 a few years back and for whatever reason I just keep wanting it more and more. I am more in tune with what I need to orgasm then when I was in my 20's or 30's

The anticipation is key. For me I love thinking about it all day. Knowing what is coming later.

This is the main reason we wanted to join this site. For real information. It's a big world. Until a few years ago we had not even thought about adding to or experimenting. Turns out there is an Adam&Eve in our big city over. I went in the first time looking for nice lingerie and then he went with me. I was a little stunned at some things. Lol. Much more open to new things now. Nice to get answers when I have a question.

So what did you do after that?

Thanks Ride. I am looking forward to the hot/cold aspect of using one of these.

Thanks for the feedback Tyger! I honestly wasn't sure if they were more for show. I've never been told it was ok to use glass. 😂 I actually just ordered a few because I am super curious if I will like them. I love one that is rock hard so that is pretty appealing to me.

Hey Emily I'm not sure if others can see your screenshot but I couldn't. Just wanted to pass that on to you. I had a hard time getting my pic to upload also.

I'm really curious about glass toys? Are they great? Our favorite lube is ID velvet. It is a silicone based lube. Our toys are silicone and I have read that you should only use water based lubes with silicone toys. I like a hard feel so is glass the way to go?

Thanks Tyger. He is pretty confident. It might be more me maybe. As in I'm worried about his reaction but I probably shouldn't be. I want to try other things, but I'm also a little self conscious about letting go completely. I think because toys are fake I shouldn't allow myself to enjoy them too much, Except maybe if I'm alone. I'm working on it though Lol

Hi all, I joined the end of December. I made a post or two but then I deleted them. I posted a picture Sunday but then also deleted it. Lol. Nervous I guess. I was trying to put up a little profile pic but I'm not sure how. Anyway this forum is very informative so thanks!

Thanks for letting me know. Hubby is on nights all week so we will have to wait to give it a try. I think a glass of wine would go well with it. :)

Yes ma'am I just got this also. The first time we ran in the camper away from the kids and it seemed a little clinical. I was disappointed. Later when I actually had time to relax and check it out I realized it is outstanding.

Holy Moly! So I asked my husband if we could get this. He is great in bed. He always gets me off, but we have just recently, last year or so, started trying toys and things. Anyway the few vibrators that we've gotten haven't really done it for me. Fine I guess for self pleasure but if we are together I would rather have him. I thought this would be both. Something different, but still him. I just opened it and I think it is pretty big. Really girthy, which I wanted but dang! I hope he isn't turned off by it. I do still really want him to try it on me. I also want him to know I think his cock is great so if I do enjoy it I'm not sure how much I should react to it.