So, I'm extremely inexperienced. I've never masturbated, and haven't really done anything past kissing. The thing is, I've been seing this guy and I think he's the guy I want to start going further with sexually. We've talked about sex, including what positions to try and what condoms to get..even if I am a little unsure if I want to lose my virginity to him. I also bought some lubes and oils for oral sex. I'm a very open minded girl, who is willing to try basically anything. The problem is, as much as I want to do this, I have a huge fear of the unknown. Do any of you have tips on how to relax?