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  1. I can definitely identify.  My husband is on HBP meds and other that has killed his drive.  before we used to have a very active sex life.  I also was having  serious issues due to menopausal hormone changes.  I sought treatment options for the last several years - bioidentical hormones etc.  Now I am on a regimen that works.  I feel great!  I have tried to get him to do it as well, and also to stop eating shit for food and get healthy.  I have tried for years, I give up as he just doesn't want to try.  I am also frustrated that he doesn't give a shit about meeting my sexual needs after me years of accommodating his even when I wan's really in the mood.   I would first suggest for you to see if your husband is willing to give you the satisfaction you need through touch, massage, kissing, even playing with you with your toys.  If not - and I know I will get blasted for this - get a lover that he will never know about.

  2. On 9/1/2018 at 9:50 AM, Marc said:

    My partner and I went through an extremely rough time a few years ago.  We had been together for almost 20 years and he suddenly went cold in bed.  He was still wonderful in day to day activities but the romance was almost non existent.  We failed to talk about it, which was a huge mistake.    When I initiated foreplay, he was passive and didn't reciprocate very much.  

    It finally reached a head, when we went on a weekend trip and discovered his inability to maintain an erection.  Although he doesn't measure his success by his prowess, he was frustrated and embarrassed.  The harder he tried the worse the results.  We tried a couple of different things and sometimes it worked, but the next time it didn't.  It probably wasn't clinical depression but it was close.  We finally went to a Doctor and discovered some health issues- serious pulmonary issues.  The best news was that we discovered it and can control it, but we now know he has limitations and that is fine.

    I am  in  this boat right here with you.  But the thing is even if he had ed, there are plenty of other things to do and it is selfish of him to not try to meet your needs.  I have always been the giver and he the taker and he even admits that,  but for sex to always be wham bam thank you ma'am is bullshit.  After 30 years and me telling him what I need in the most loving way I can I throw in the towel. 

  3. OMG YUMMIE, is that a hammock I see?  That looks like fun!  I would love to take that sexy huge head in my mouth right love and give it a treatment, I would really love to eat that shaft like an ear of corn, nibbling all up and down it till I get to those delectable balls, ummmm looks like a nice mouthful!  I also love your tan body, yummy there too would love to see more of that nice chest.  

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  4. I don't know about shower heads and hot tub jets.  They are nice but I orgasm much more intensely with a bullet vibrator.  I am exploring sex toy options as my man doesn't really care to satisfy me any more.  My vibrator is very noisy though almost to distraction.  Any suggestions?  Was also thinking of a rabbit toy, you know the whole sheebang with rotating, butterfly vibrator etc.  any experience with those?

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  5. Cass, I have the same problem too, although I  have found a vibe bullet helps me it still takes time.  I also have a realistic penis dildo with suction cup and that might help you because you can find a way to do hands free.  Another things I have noticed is that It works better for me sometimes do not just keep stimulating my clit constantly, but do some and get the good feelings and then back off a bit, even get up and walk around for a minute and then go again different postitions etc.  My husband had completely lost interest in me except when I pursue, and he has always been a selfish lover, so I have had to get used to pleasing myself.  It is not selfish of you to get something so that you are not frustrated.  I like all of the suggestions on the curved glass dildo, I am thinking I need to get myself one.  Maybe start there and see what it does for you, but the combo of dildo and vibe works for me.  

  6. I have a vibrator and I like it, it is just a simple bullet rechargeable one, but it is so loud!  Is there any such thing as one that is quiet or is it just something that goes with the territory?  It also gets very hot, which is ok, but I wanted to make sure that is normal.

  7. On 8/13/2018 at 1:48 PM, RC4BLUE said:

    Loneliness in a relationship is one of the most difficult things many people experience. It can be magnified when your sexual appetite is not matched with your partner’s appetite. Stress, demands, health and family can all have huge impacts on sexuality in a relationship. Being too tired is a common excuse. I don’t think it is a very good excuse, especially when there are times when no other demands may be present. I like the idea of setting up date nights, sex nights and play days. Escape at least once a week to connect. Spend some time with the sensual and the erotic. Remind one another why you chose him/her/them. Encourage your partner to be loving and sensual. Remember to give in order to receive. To often when we don’t get what we desire we will pull away. That can be detrimental to the relationship. I encourage open discussion and open expression of your sexual desire. 

    This is so true RC4BLUE,

    I know it is hard when he draws away, maybe try some end arounds into sex, like a nice back rub, or foot massage.  First couple times don't expect anything and see where it leads.  I am trying to work up the courage to discuss things like this with my husband, I have been with for nearly 30 years.  I mentioned to him if he doesn't want me there are things he can do FOR me and he just said I know, so not sure it will help to talk, but it is worth a shot.  You might also try reading a book called the 5 love languages, it talks about how different people give and recieve love in different ways.  Maybe you and he are speaking the wrong ones to each other.

  8. and a couple of add ons, the not getting rough part...if you bite or get too hard on the clit, or labia or jam your fist too hard against her you will totally shut down the impending orgasm and it will have to start all over again, and if you curl your fingers right you will be hitting the g spot, just stay deep in there and curl the ends of them over and over to massage it.

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  9. OMG this is SOOO perfectly right.  It should be required reading for every many in the universe.  I love having my pussy eaten, and the MOST important thing for a guy to remember is that it should NOT be just something to do to get her hot enough to stick in your dick, you have to make it all about her from start to finish.  And the pre eating play is just as important as the actual meal take your time...

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  10. I want to suck on those lovely deep hanging balls so bad.  I can imagine the feel of them under my tongue, I love the feel of the underside of your cock on my tongue.  Ya know how on ConAire the catch phrase he says is "peach, I can eat a peach for hours" ?  Although I would dearly LOVE to have my peach eaten for hours but I would love to suck cock for hours.  I am just so totally in to pleasuring a man's penis, I crave it almost as much as my quest for orgasm.  I love the second shot of your hard cock soooo much.  As i said I could work on that for hours.  it literally makes my pussy thrill and my mouth water wanting to lick it.  I want to grab your ass cheeks and squeeze them so hard and pull them to my face with your dick in my mouth.   I am getting so wet just telling you this... 

     

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  11. Your cock is so sexy!  I love how your balls drape off of it like a hero's cape in a superhero movie.  And of course I love clean shaven, so smooth and soft.  And tha HEAD like a firemans helmet, so suckable and big! I think your name does not tell all.

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  12. I am looking at this pic more and more and catch my breath in my throat, I just noticed that really sexy part where the leg leads to your balls, whoah I would love to massage that area, on both side while you pump you hard cock.  I want to watch you jack off that amazing hard dick, pump it til you come, I want to watch your cum come out of that tasty hole.  I might like a taste...

  13. aha there you are... WOW am really liking the thought of licking that shaft and watching it grow. That sexy mushroom head I would lover to pop my lips over that, over and over and then lick under it with just the tip of my tongue around and around.  Then I would like to put a light suction on that tip with my lips just the head, and I would love to stick my tongue into that lovely hole, hopefully getting a taste of precum.  Now I flick my tongue on that sexy part under the tip, the frenulum, it is soooo soft in texture my tongue just can't get enough.  Those BALLS OMG I would love to take each in the palms of my hands and lightly massage them and then I could suck on them stuffing them both into my mouth and lick upward they are so pendulous and long.  I like to make you stand while I do this so I can feel your legs shake with excitement and desire, and I can touch and massage you with my hands,.  So now turn around so I can lick the back side of those lovely balls, and then on to ...One of my favorite parts, that smooth sexy area between your balls and your asshole.  I make my tongue fat and round and soft and lick lick lick that part, then across your brown hole a few strokes and then pointy tongue and go around the edge.  My hands are on your cock and balls as I do this, stroking your hard shaft, I put my thumb just behind your balls and press hard, massaging.  I want my many hands on you to feel like there is another woman here pleasuring you with  me, moving them over you quickly and then slowly, but I don't like to share so pretend.  I am still tonguing your anus and running my hands up your inner thighs, squeezing and massaging.  I squeeze and stroke that triangle groin that men have because I know it is so sensitive, your cock is jumping with excitement as I circle my hands round without touching it or your balls, just massage deep around.  I turn back around and take your cock in my mouth, kneeling before you.  I am hoping your will gather my hair in your hands and encourage my head bobbing and I suck the head and then deeper!  I tell you softly cum on fuck my face, and you change your grip to the back of my head and you start to pump, squeezing your ass cheeks as I deep throat you, and swallow your dick head as it pokes against the back of my throat.  I am still learning how to swallow  your member so I choke a bit but don't stop unless - oh yeah you want more.  You lay on the couch and I straddle your face for a bit so I can tantalize you with my scent, but right now it is all about you, so while you suck on my pussy lips I go down on that hard cock again sucking the tip and working your shaft with my hand, first straight then with a twist.  You are getting really hard now and I can tell you are getting close to shooting that hot load.  I want it in me so I move on down reverse cowgirl, with my ass cheeks spread for you to squeeze and lightly slap.  In my mind I am thinking How I would love to feel your tongue on that but for right now I want that hard cock in my pussy and your thumb in my ass.  You hang on squirming your thumb in there while I bounce hard on your cock first fast, then slow, then fast again.  You grab my hips with both hands then and help me fuck you harder, I can feel you grinding up at me straining to get the deepest penetration.  You are getting harder and harder and HARDER as our skin slaps together I am loving the feeling in my pussy as you expand ready to shoot your load into my wet darkness, I am rising and falling as you begin to come.  I want to milk every last drop out of you so I squeeze my inside muscles in rhythm to your thrusts, then sit hard on you and grind a bit as I feel your legs twitching and shivering with the last throes of your orgasm.  I love fucking so you better relax and get some rest because round two cums soon...

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