horny farm gal

I can definitely identify. My husband is on HBP meds and other that has killed his drive. before we used to have a very active sex life. I also was having serious issues due to menopausal hormone changes. I sought treatment options for the last several years - bioidentical hormones etc. Now I am on a regimen that works. I feel great! I have tried to get him to do it as well, and also to stop eating shit for food and get healthy. I have tried for years, I give up as he just doesn't want to try. I am also frustrated that he doesn't give a shit about meeting my sexual needs after me years of accommodating his even when I wan's really in the mood. I would first suggest for you to see if your husband is willing to give you the satisfaction you need through touch, massage, kissing, even playing with you with your toys. If not - and I know I will get blasted for this - get a lover that he will never know about.

spend the money, get her hormone replacement therapy and she will want to ride that dick like she never did before...speaking from experience, but he dont want it no more...

I am in this boat right here with you. But the thing is even if he had ed, there are plenty of other things to do and it is selfish of him to not try to meet your needs. I have always been the giver and he the taker and he even admits that, but for sex to always be wham bam thank you ma'am is bullshit. After 30 years and me telling him what I need in the most loving way I can I throw in the towel.

I had the same question,, is it pee or something else because once when it happened I went back down and it tasted like pee, but then when I tried it when I was by myself once with my fingers it didn't taste like pee, so there are two different things happening there.

thanks for the response, another question, ladies, if you use a vibrator, do you find it makes it harder to orgasm without using it?

OMG YUMMIE, is that a hammock I see? That looks like fun! I would love to take that sexy huge head in my mouth right love and give it a treatment, I would really love to eat that shaft like an ear of corn, nibbling all up and down it till I get to those delectable balls, ummmm looks like a nice mouthful! I also love your tan body, yummy there too would love to see more of that nice chest.

I do have to admit though that I love getting eaten as much as I love sucking...

dahummmm

I don't know about shower heads and hot tub jets. They are nice but I orgasm much more intensely with a bullet vibrator. I am exploring sex toy options as my man doesn't really care to satisfy me any more. My vibrator is very noisy though almost to distraction. Any suggestions? Was also thinking of a rabbit toy, you know the whole sheebang with rotating, butterfly vibrator etc. any experience with those?

Which one is it on the site, I see two

Another thought, if you want to bite the bullet LOL and get the thrusting toy, I think there is a return policy? Maybe check on that and see, then your hubs might be more inclined to let you get it if he knows you can return it if it doesn't work for you.

Cass, I have the same problem too, although I have found a vibe bullet helps me it still takes time. I also have a realistic penis dildo with suction cup and that might help you because you can find a way to do hands free. Another things I have noticed is that It works better for me sometimes do not just keep stimulating my clit constantly, but do some and get the good feelings and then back off a bit, even get up and walk around for a minute and then go again different postitions etc. My husband had completely lost interest in me except when I pursue, and he has always been a selfish lover, so I have had to get used to pleasing myself. It is not selfish of you to get something so that you are not frustrated. I like all of the suggestions on the curved glass dildo, I am thinking I need to get myself one. Maybe start there and see what it does for you, but the combo of dildo and vibe works for me.

I have a vibrator and I like it, it is just a simple bullet rechargeable one, but it is so loud! Is there any such thing as one that is quiet or is it just something that goes with the territory? It also gets very hot, which is ok, but I wanted to make sure that is normal.

There are some tip stimulators out there that have a cord and a remote, but not really a way to keep it all in place as you move around. You might also consider finding out the cause of the ED in the first place, such as side effects of medications (especially statin drugs) which is the case with my husband.

This is so true RC4BLUE, I know it is hard when he draws away, maybe try some end arounds into sex, like a nice back rub, or foot massage. First couple times don't expect anything and see where it leads. I am trying to work up the courage to discuss things like this with my husband, I have been with for nearly 30 years. I mentioned to him if he doesn't want me there are things he can do FOR me and he just said I know, so not sure it will help to talk, but it is worth a shot. You might also try reading a book called the 5 love languages, it talks about how different people give and recieve love in different ways. Maybe you and he are speaking the wrong ones to each other.

Ahhhh yesss That is some yum right there,where to start...

and a couple of add ons, the not getting rough part...if you bite or get too hard on the clit, or labia or jam your fist too hard against her you will totally shut down the impending orgasm and it will have to start all over again, and if you curl your fingers right you will be hitting the g spot, just stay deep in there and curl the ends of them over and over to massage it.

OMG this is SOOO perfectly right. It should be required reading for every many in the universe. I love having my pussy eaten, and the MOST important thing for a guy to remember is that it should NOT be just something to do to get her hot enough to stick in your dick, you have to make it all about her from start to finish. And the pre eating play is just as important as the actual meal take your time...

I would love for my husband to use a big dildo on me while he fucks me in the ass.

what advise are you looking for? I can talk about sex all you want...

I want to suck on those lovely deep hanging balls so bad. I can imagine the feel of them under my tongue, I love the feel of the underside of your cock on my tongue. Ya know how on ConAire the catch phrase he says is "peach, I can eat a peach for hours" ? Although I would dearly LOVE to have my peach eaten for hours but I would love to suck cock for hours. I am just so totally in to pleasuring a man's penis, I crave it almost as much as my quest for orgasm. I love the second shot of your hard cock soooo much. As i said I could work on that for hours. it literally makes my pussy thrill and my mouth water wanting to lick it. I want to grab your ass cheeks and squeeze them so hard and pull them to my face with your dick in my mouth. I am getting so wet just telling you this...

Your cock is so sexy! I love how your balls drape off of it like a hero's cape in a superhero movie. And of course I love clean shaven, so smooth and soft. And tha HEAD like a firemans helmet, so suckable and big! I think your name does not tell all.

I am looking at this pic more and more and catch my breath in my throat, I just noticed that really sexy part where the leg leads to your balls, whoah I would love to massage that area, on both side while you pump you hard cock. I want to watch you jack off that amazing hard dick, pump it til you come, I want to watch your cum come out of that tasty hole. I might like a taste...

wow that is one SEXY HARD. So suckable and fuckable.