Suzaniam
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1 hour ago, Chubbs0709 said:
His loss your a beautiful young woman who will find another man in no time don’t worry about it an him treating you like sh1t NOT cool he did that to make himself feel better inside when rlly he was Probably hating himself on the inside. Next man will be lucky to catch you 💪🏻💯
Thanks! I guess I should update that to 4 years now... he called n knew I was on here a couple of weeks ago. Swore he loved me. Swore he hadn't been complimenting or seeing any women Anywhere, bc he was so set on getting me back. 2 nights ago, I was on twitter via a notification, and lo and behold, wisconsin as*hole changed his screen name and was busy messaging s*x workers after telling me he was going to sleep. AGAIN.
Ugh.
I would rather date a serial killer than that man.
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On 6/26/2022 at 4:35 AM, Always ready for sex said:
Looking gorgeous babe you have a sexy body love your pictures any man would be lucky to have you.
Thanks! My ex has been stalking me here, so I stay away a lot.
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I'm not bi, but curious 😂
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Here's a couple!
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42 minutes ago, Lonely and divorced said:
Everyone lives so far!
Sooo true! 🙃😂
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3 hours ago, Fun4her +me! said:
If I had this to wake up to every morning or come home to, I would not be looking up websites that had hookers let alone any other women. My tongue would dance all over that delicious looking pussy till you had a satisfying orgasm then I'd hope you would return the favor to my manhood! My ex would tease me with her womanly charms, but then the next minute start an argument so that she could have an excuse not to have sex - after 10 years of this foolishness it was time to say GOODBYE! My wife has a co-worker whose better half is doing the same thing to her now. Her co-worker's husband goes out of town for months at a time to the same two states at different times of the year, but when he comes home he doesn't want to have sex no matter what she does to entice him. This co-worker refuses to believe her man is toying with her emotions as well as her life! My wife told this co-worker that she needs to hire a private detective to find out what is really going on with this man. My wife believes that this co-worker's husband may have women or even family in both of these two states and could be secretly married to where he goes to all the time. What man goes out of town on business to the same two states for months at a time and then comes home and doesn't want have sex with his wife, especially when they don't have any children? This co-worker is too blind to see that she has now been put on a shelf by her man who claims he doesn't want sex, because he doesn't want to get her pregnant. There's definitely something fishy going on with my wife's co-worker's man and his travels, but the only way this woman is going to fix it, she has to get tired of being on the shelf!
I have a friend who is helping me get out of the situation. When WG starts hoovering, or baiting me with accusations, I message her instead of getting back into the trap. I have my own theories about my shelf status. I guess narcissists can have more than one shelf supply. I think the article mentioned 3 different shelf holders. The guy calls me a stalker, but last night, a new member here just happened to give my Narc's standard compliment to someone. I've been called paranoid, but I've had up to 47 blocked calls in one night, and have changed my phone number once. I'm an Empath. A narcissist's favorite supply. A magnet, kinda. I have to be really careful when I meet someone.
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1 hour ago, Rio said:
I was going to say that I think therapy is definitely a must. Glad you are doing it. I hope you can heal and move on and find someone to have a true living relationship with.
I've been in therapy for almost 30 years! Lmao. I had to have a specialized treatment in order to finally start healing. I've moved on many, many times in the past 3 1/2 years. If the Narc would leave me alone, I'd do better.
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9 hours ago, Jizzlobber77 said:
How could anyone want to go elsewhere x
Unfortunately, there are people who enjoy inflicting emotional and psychological abuse. They are Narcissists. I'm what is known as a Magnet for narcissists. An Intuitive Empath. I was raised to accept abuse, in a Narcissistic family. This guy got to me before I started learning about it.
There are 4 stages of Narcissistic abuse. Very subtle, invisible to the outside world. A Covert Narcissist seems like the all around "nice guy", but they aren't. The 4 steps they use are idealization, devaluation, discard, and hoover.
At first, the victim (supply) can do no wrong, they're Perfect. Once they get used to being put on a pedestal, the Devaluation starts. Now the supply can't do anything Right. Behind the scenes, the Narc is starting other relationships, gathering supply for when the Discard comes. If you catch them lying and cheating, they blame you, then discard you. As soon as you start moving on, though, the Narc gets bored w the New supply, and while searching for new, starts Hoovering the 1st one again. (Sucking them into abuse like a vacuum)
If the Shelf Supply (me, put on the shelf for later) falls for the hoover, the cycle starts back up. Gaslighting, projection, and physical abuse happens regularly for the shelf supply, but the outside world only sees a "crazy" person. Narcissists enjoy seeing their supply hurt and confused. They will use a person until that person is an empty shell, then just move onto the next.
Someday, I'll be able to stay no contact. Therapy is helping a lot.
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July of 2019. Soooo long ago, it seems like. Everything, and nothing has changed. My life has changed for the better, I've moved forward quite a bit.
What hasn't changed is the roller coaster ride from hell, and the man driving it. No matter how many times I move on, and try to forget about him, he will stay in the back of my thoughts. I don't know why. My friends tell me he isn't worth my time. I know I can do much better, like they say. I wish my heart would listen.
Narcissistic Abuse Trauma Bond. If the Narc would leave me alone, I could move forward in that area of my life, too.
On the dating site I frequent, I get lots of attention, but as soon as they find out I'm not a dating site camgirl advertising "free sex in your town!" they disappear.
I don't know how to flirt online the way they want. I can't do phone sex- I can't think of what to say.
I do fine in person... but I have yet to meet someone, and be asked out on a date. They tell me Any man would love to have me.
Yet here I am, alone.
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On 11/24/2021 at 1:19 PM, Wisconsin Cougar said:
I think there are a lot of us Sisters out here that won't or can't speak up. I absolutely love cock, I can't get enough of that love muscle. I have numerous men who by the way my husband knows and approves that service me often and with vigor. The sexy part is I don't hide the fact that another mans cum is freshly deposited, he comes home to find me wearing what we call my fuck shirt and he knows I have something for him. He fingers my cum soaked pussy and is instantly rock hard many times bending me over right there and litterly fuck my brains out.
Every time I read about your adventures I wonder what it would be like to get all the sex I want.
Time to get the toys out...
I wishIwishIwish
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1 hour ago, Fun4her +me! said:
Sounds like you could use a good licking and then a nice hard cock to fill you up. I have to agree with you about masturbation it does not replace the need for a good hard fuck! I would love to have a woman to get me so hard, that we could fuck till we both sexually satisfied - talk about April, my cock hasn't made a pussy cum in over 3 years - wife lost interest in sex with a real cock, loves her sex toys instead.
I'm so sorry to hear that. The "man" I was with in april didn't want to take the viagra he brought with him, I think he had a date with someone else after I dropped him off at his son's.
Also, he would rather surf dating sites for hookers to have phone sex with, and Twitter for camgirls rather than be with me.
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On 5/31/2021 at 9:24 PM, Nevertooold said:
Thank you. I enjoy taking and sharing the pictures. But for some reason.. right now I really need to have someone working my body over besides just me! 😉
I know Exactly how you feel! I'm coming up on 1 year with no sex. It's horrible.
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I don't masturbate as much as I think about doing it. It's frustrating for me, because it doesn't scratch my itch, so to speak, lol
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22 minutes ago, Rio said:
What I bet would feel good is if I got my tongue all nice and wet with some ice cubes and then got down between your legs and licked that beautiful pussy of yours with my cold tongue
Omg... is what I'd be saying. The cumming would start even before the tongue went inside 😂😂😂😂😂
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3 hours ago, Ready2fuck said:
I can use a strap on and fuck you after I eat that juicy pussy.
I really think I would enjoy that. Thank you for that scene in my head I just got. I'll use it later 😁
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4 hours ago, Highroller8 said:
Well the knife cuts both ways ladies, I have seen my sex life deminish due to my wife’s lack of drive… so it’s not just men, Only because of ED do men get a bad rap!
If I have a connection with someone, I'm not worried whether he has ED or not. My late husband was impotent the last 6 years of our marriage. He couldn't take the meds, or was afraid, I don't remember, but I dealt with it. Since becoming a widow, and returning to dating, my issue with men hasn't been that they couldn't get hard. My issue was that they never told me until it happened, and didn't take medication for it. My narcissistic ex even had pills with him, but didn't use them. I found out later he was saving them for his next date.
Women have issues, too as they age. If I'm lucky enough to get laid, I deal with cystitis for 2 weeks afterward. I don't know whether it's lack of, or age, to tell the truth. 🙃
Anyway, I can't speak for "all" women, but for me, ED isn't a problem. I learned with my nex that it's only one part of a great time, and fixable for most.
As a fellow sexually frustrated person, I get it. Have a great day!
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2 hours ago, Rio said:
Will my tongue licking that red pussy make it feel better?
Yes... yes it would! 😂
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Hey there!
And now... the continuing stooory, of a woman accused of looking for attention by a man who frequents sex sites and will mislead women to believe he wants a relationship with them. Preferably new widows, but anyone will do.
So now, the Lady gets attention that is deserved 😁
Freshly shaved, just a bit of redness...
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Damn. I've been saying for a long time that I have no interest in a woman... but that looks like it might feel pretty good.
This is the first time I've actually been interested. But damn I so want to be fucked. I wish masturbation worked for me...
April was sooooo long ago.
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Dating sites are full of men who tell you they're interested in a relationship, but only want pics and phone/video sex. Those are the ones who can't perform.
I can see this site is full of men who are plenty able, but are either in committed relationships already, and/or are looking for casual sex. I think...
I'm going on 60, though, and I can understand the question. I've had my share of empty promises.
The "man" I'm currently keeping at bay cannot get hard, but he has phone sex and videosex with any woman who will oblige. So there must be some sensation. And he is good at oral, so.
I wish for a connection that goes beyond sex, though. That's the elusive one.
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4 hours ago, Rio said:
You Are a very hot woman maybe you need to start looking for men in different spots than where you have been. Apparently your sites are not attracting the kind of guys that you want to meet up with for long term relationships
I'm off dating sites now. And since it's cold outside, I'm not going anywhere these days, lmao! I'm taking a break from even trying anymore. I've got better things to do than hurt my ego every time I turn around! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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(She shakes her head and says)
You have Got to be fking Kidding me. I've been doing well at rejecting Wisconsin guy's offers of phone and videosex...
The other man I was talking to... I don't get it. I figure, I've been talking to him for about a year, maybe I should meet up with him. He said he'd love it. Then.
I asked for his name (I only know 1/2). I tried searching his phone number, nada. And the dude didn't answer. He liked my gingerbread cookies, but never answered my question.
Dude...
I can't win fer losin'.
(Excuse the mess behind me.. I just moved)
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That is the best fantasy I have! Wisconsin guy was supposed to be my "burglar". I had a dress all picked out for when we met up this month. I guess I'll have to bring it up with the man I'm talking to now. 😁
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Thanks, everybody! I've been learning about narcissists, and some on the spectrum enjoy inflicting mental and emotional pain on others. It makes them feel powerful. Other kinds inflict physical abuse, too.
Wisconsin guy tried to make me believe I was being unreasonable to want the same public attention he gave every other woman. There's only so many times I can see pictures with comments like "Beautiful!" "Stunning!" "Gorgeous!" and "Stunning Babe!" with a picture of the man I'm supposedly in a relationship with, when he wouldn't be caught dead liking or complimenting mine. I found out why, though. He had girlfriends that would get mad at him. More than one. I'm too good to be someone's secret side chick.
My concert season starts Friday, though. I'll be busy all October, and won't have time to pout over a pos like that. Hamilton is going to be Epic, Aftershock follows, then... (I'm soooo excited!!!) I Finally get to see System of a Down! Whoo hoo! My daughter is making all this happen. I'm so grateful to have her. 😁
I'll post more pics soon, everyone have a great month!
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She's Looking for Attention Again!
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Well, well. I had a few weeks of listening to lies and other assorted bullshit from Wisconsin guy. It seems he's been keeping an eye on me here. He knew when I last responded to messages etc. Soooo, I figured I'd update.
He opened some new accounts on social media, changed his screen name on other sites. Then he decided to feed me his "I truly love you, I'm not on thos at all anymore, try to find me!"
Since I had him blocked, it wasn't hard. And yes, very active. He once again stayed completely away from My pictures, as usual. He wouldn't be caught dead giving me a compliment in public. So I closed that account. I'll just post the newest ones here, and let you guys tell my stalker/romance scammer how dumb he is. 😁
