I am a 52 year old woman who enjoys sex a lot and joke about being a Tootsie pop, as I seem unaroused on the outside but am very wet on the inside. I have been frustrated by becoming so close then not climaxing. I do take antidepressants which I think are the cause. Has anyone found a way around it? I used to have no trouble despite the meds. I am not in or close to menopause.